Sexuality has been a major conflict in human minds.
While a happily married man is one who enjoys good sex with his wife, an advanced soul is one who leaves sex to pursue the path of God.
All souls want to be advanced as soul advancement leads to greater degrees of happiness. However, ignoring the physical body and its needs like food, water or sex may not be harmonious with the path of soul advancement.
Conquering physical desires is necessary so that we do not crave for them and become negative. But, meeting basic physical needs is necessary also to attain a balance between the spiritual body and the physical body.
IF we negate the physical body in the path of soul evolution, we may become more negative, cynical and angry than positive. We may become saint like but we may lose patience with the general public and hence spread more negativity than positive energy.
On the other hand, if we indulge in free sex, we become like animals. That also devolves us and makes us angry, bitter and sarcastic. We transfer energies to each other through sex and the fears of the person who we have sex with gets transferred to us whenever we have sex with that person. Sex with people we do not love is harmful, as we pick up energies of random people.
The soul in a human body is a mix between God and man.
The God part of the soul is the free spirit. We are free spirits before we are born in a human body.
In the spirit body also, we experience love, sex, friendship, learning and compassion. There is no competition between spirits as there is no threat of survival. The spirit is not bound by any physical constraints. Spirits live in heaven as freely as we live on Earth. They have normal activities like schooling, entertainment, sports, research, healing, hospitals, karmic record keeping etc.
In the spirit body, we can have free sex with anybody whose energies feel as positive as our own. There is no sense of commitment, responsibility or worry of having children. The spirit body has no physical bodies like food, clothing or shelter and hence the man and woman souls do not have allotted roles of responsibility sharing.
Spirit sex creates feelings of joy in the partners. There is a merging of energies which is far more intense than in the physical body because the spirit body is more fluid. The two souls love freely and can surrender to each other as water merging with a river.
The animal part of human body is the pure physical body. This pure physical body understands only basic feelings and nothing complicated. People who have free sex like animals do are young souls. They have superficial sex and do not experience intense satisfaction. Sex is like eating food for them and they just vent out anger or frustration as in a boxing game. These souls evolve when they experience love and good sex.
Love creates intense passion and an increase in soul frequencies. When people have sex with love, they form an emotional and physical bonding. The soul evolves only when the emotional aspect gets connected to the physical aspect, when the animal needs become God like needs. When the Gods have sex, they exchange love, positivity, harmony, passion and oneness.
When animals have sex, they do not merge in each other’s energies. It is like steel banging steel . There is no emotional mingling of souls.
Advanced souls prefer to stay away from animal sex. That is because animal sex is fruitless for the advanced souls.
In the olden days, when there was mainly animal like sex, souls were advised to stay away from sex than become animal like.
However, with evolution, women also started becoming as advanced as men. Several advanced souls incarnated as women. The souls who feel in love could experience high degrees of soul evolution with sex which made them complete.
Hence, sex did not block soul evolution but helped it. In fact, saints who had to leave sex to evolve became rapists and killers in next life to vent out the suppressed emotions.
Sex is a blessing if we can receive love and give love. When the emotional and physical bonding is complete, sex helps sin soul advancement as it leads to positive feelings.
However, when there is no love exchange of any kind like in paid sex or traditional sex for children, sex is harmful. The soul which indulges in sex without love is likely to become an animal again in the next life.
Sex is a sin if it is animal like and a blessing if it is God like. When the exchange is physical, there is a sin as it makes both souls unhappier. When there is love and contentment exchanged, sex becomes a blessing as positive joy is created for both souls.