Charity .... how does it help our soul brigten as happier or darken as unhappier

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Our soul comes in a  human body to brighten itself. The soul brightens when it feels powerful in some way. the more powerful the soul is, the closer it is to God , the most powerful being. The happier we feel, the healthier we are.

Helping another person makes us feel powerful ideally and hence, increases happiness. If the helping action does not make us feel powerful, it makes us feel unhappier and darkens our soul..

Charity is an action of help. Charity creates positive karma and  helps to erase negative karma if the intention is positively to help concretely. Charity done the positive /right way helps us break free from feeling helpless.

However, the soul doesn't evolve through actions but through feelings. Feelings are electric impulses which impact energy radiation. Soul is an energy and it evolves when we add on to its positive energy with feeling happy. 

The soul evolves when we feel positive while thinking about the action and continue to feel positive while doing the act. The positive energy radiated by feeling happy, helps the soul become advanced and powerful.

Charity is like any other act which we do to feel happy. Charity has several dimensions to it. Help may not be given only through money.Charity may also be given as food, clothes, support etc. 

 Charity is also given as energy, as love, as sharing knowledge, as blessings, as forgiveness etc. A mother gives charity when she leaves her job for the kids but she evolves only when she is happier with the kids than in the job. A father gives charity if he chooses to stay with a wife he doesn't love for the sake of the kids but the charity helps only if the kids and father feel happier by that choice. If the mother or the father feel negatively sacrificed like goats, the charity backfires and creates more negative karma than positive. 

We give charity to save taxes. We also give charity when we want to support a cause. We also give charity when someone we love asks for help. But, does all charity help our soul evolve to a higher level of happiness?

The answer is no. Charity helps the soul evolve only when the person giving it believes that he is genuinely helping another soul feel better through giving the charity.  The person has to feel acknowledged for giving the charity in a  way that he feels powerful and positive by helping. If we give charity to remove a load from our heads and continue feeling sad , charity doesnt help. 

The charity helps if its changes our own thought process to more positive. That  can happen only if the charity is given by sacrificing our time and  energy in some way which is unusual, non routine . When the routine changes, the soul's inner vibrations record the charity. If it is a routine act of help, the soul may even feel negatively sacrificed and 

If we give charity only to pep ourselves, it has that much affect only. It peps us up for some time and then we feel depressed again.

However, if we give charity because we truly love someone, we sacrifice some part of ourselves for giving that charity. The release of our soul energy to give charity is replaced by a positive energy as our happiness increases because of giving charity.

Our soul evolves only when our happiness rises.

The soul does not evolve when we help someone while feeling negative within ourselves. When we feel sacrificed through an act, the effect of charity is harmful for our happiness.

Charity is just another action we use to repay our negative karma. Negative karma is repaid when we replace negative energy in our lives with positive. Happiness increases positive energy.

Happiness comes when our contribution influences another person in a way that our consciousness expands, as the Creator.

If we spend our money on buying material things like clothes or cars, we don’t rise much in terms of happiness. We try to impress others by looking good. But, looking good doesn’t lead to feeling good.

However, charity helps if we can feel good within by giving the charity. If we give the charity selflessly, without attaching ego with it, we release a part of ourselves into the Light. That helps clear negative energy for the soul.

In our world, there are several rich people who feel poor. There is abundance among several people but they feel more negative than the poor people. They try to compensate by giving small time charities but it doesn’t help them in feeling better because they spend a lot more of their money on material pleasures. If the energy spent on God’s work is less than the energy spent on non God’s work, then we feel empty inside, on an average. There is science behind this as life force comes from god. When we feel complete and content, we resonate with God's life force. But when we smile aimlessly, attend formalities and work for time pass than pleasure, then we go against God. The emptier we feel in these activities, the more our negativity rises. Just preaching good words or reading about spirituality doesn’t help unless we can take action and make choices to be positive, free of the negative.

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Therefore, when you give charity, give it without feeling negative in any way. Do not give charity out of pity or sympathy or a ritual. Do not encourage people to be dependent and obligated to increase your own power. Do not give charity to people who are negative  and who keep asking for money to fill their boredom.

Give charity if it can be given with a  belief that it will karmic ally increase your own happiness in some way. Charity helps to create positive karma when  you are sure  that God will repay you back with increased strength and positivity .

The action does not matter in creating positive karma. An act of service done with a negative intention may increase problems in your life.  It is the positive intention or the feelings which are associated behind the actions, which create positive karmic cycles and raise your well being.