To be angry can be one of our greatest weaknesses
Yet we can get over ruled if we do not defend ourselves
to be stress free in case of experiencing anger
helps us be at peace even if other people yell or err
to be in peace as a habit is necessary to curb the increasing need to indulge in anger
Anger creates stress. Stress releases negative hormones in the
body. The negative hormones act like slow poison and harm the
organs.
Stress release meditation helps to be free of stress for a few
minutes, so that the intensity of negative energy flow
in the body reduces.
The exercise given below is a short cut which can be used on
a routne basis.
For
best results, do this exercise as
soon as you get up early morning or before sleeping
at night.
• Sit up with
your
spine/backbone straight or Lie down
in a comfortable position.
• Close
your eyes.
• Imagine that you are leaving your
body and flying up
to the skies.
• Feel yourself floating freely in the clouds.
Soar you wings and fly higher. Feel
the freedom as you fly
up through layers of clouds.
• Imagine entering a halo of brilliant white light. Feel the light
cleansing you like a shower of pure water.
Feel the stress releasing
from your body.
• Feel black smoke leaving your body and imagine
that your cells are glowing with the brilliance of white light. Imagine black balls of smoke leaving your feet.
• Feel a white cloud of pure life force filling
you up and imagine your fingers glowing with light. Feel your face, your hands, your arms, shoulders, stomach, chest, legs
and head glowing with light.
• Feel
happiness
filling
you up as you
imagine
feeling
cleansed and glowing.
• Look at yourself and imagine that you are looking young,
healthy and fit. Move your limbs
and imagine that you are walking
or running, without any problems.
• After feeling
the happiness and health in your body, start
flying back again. Fly through
the clouds and come back to your body.
• Re-enter your body and focus on which part of the body
you
feel most stressed in. Wherever you feel an ache or a
heaviness, realize that your stress is stored
in that part of the body.
• Focus on the energy in that part of the body and imagine
passing white light
through that part of the body.
• Try to see whether the energy in that organ is flowing
clockwise or anticlockwise. Reverse
its flow to release
the negative energy.
• Feel negative energy coming out as black smoke. Imagine
white light filling in.
• You can also imagine that there is a red ball or
a black ball in that part of the body. Focus on whether
you
feel anger at yourself
while looking at the ball.
Make the ball smaller and bigger in your imagination so
that
it becomes flexible to change. Keep shrinking and expanding the ball
till you can imagine that it bursts. In place of the negative ball of
energy, imagine white light
filling in and a white, radiant
glow
healing that part.
• Feel how it
would be to imagine peace in the affected part of the body.
• Feel blue/green/ white light
coming and filling up that
area. Feel more at
peace.
• Again focus on different parts of
your body and see
the white light spreading all over your body. Feel your in
ner being filled with light.
• Connect your head to a
wire of golden light
coming from the sky. Thank the God you believe in. If anything angers you, imagine white light
piercing the picture of that situation in your mind. See it dissolving as a
picture and golden light
filling up. Take a breath of peace.
• Feel happy as a
soul, as an energy.
• Now, feeling
rejuvenated, you can
open your eyes and
progress with your day.
All these exercises of anger management can be used to address other negative feelings as well like hurt, rejection etc.
As all these feelings also have anger at
the base.
It is important to feel neutral or optimistic
while doing any mental exercise as the difference
in our biological
mechanism is created by release of positive hormones in the body. Creating feelings of happiness,
at
peace or calm is more effective than
learning the exercises by rote and following them, strictly by procedure. The above given steps need not be literally followed step
by step
as they may have to
be modified,
elaborated
or circumcised, according to individual needs. Sometimes,
flowing freely in positive imagination with our energy becomes the key factor in healing
than reading or learning
techniques.
The critical bit in anger management is choosing to let go.
We
need to have an inner
desire to be at peace,
modify our belief systems and improve our communication abilities, so as to find happiness with our efforts.
By choosing
to hold onto grudges or feelings
of revenge,
we cannot expect to be free of anger or realize happiness. If the anger is deep, other than these routine exercises, more healing may be needed
through using past life therapy, spirit release,
neuro-linguistic programming etc.
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