Saturday, 7 November 2015

GHOSTS CANNOT HIT BUT THEY CAN MAKE YOU SICK FROM ENERGY CONTROL OF MIND







This topic is discussed in detail in the book :REDEFINING HAPPINESS
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1506004776?keywords=swati%20shiv&qid=1446638743&ref_=sr_1_3&sr=8-3


Though popular media thrives on selling horror stories and ghost tales, Ghosts are as harmless or as harmful as a normal person can be albeit without a body to support it . Ghosts are generally frail and weak forms of holosync consciousness which does not evaporate just because the body dies. A person is a thinking being and the identity remains strong even though the body evaporates unless spiritual awareness develops enough to detach from problems on Earth at the drop of an instant moment of death.

It is silly to deny existence of ghosts as most people have spirit attachments like virus staying in body, be it of alive or dead people . If thoughts of alive people dominate you, you have spirits of alive people attached with you. If thoughts of dead people dominate over you, you have entertained ghost attachments who lost ther own bodies.

Ghosts exist just as air exists. Ghosts are the energy which remains when a physical body dies. While the physical body decomposes, the energy which is tied in thoughts of the person does not dissolve immediately after death on its own.

The consciousness of the person remains. If the person is spiritually aware, and thinks positive at the last moment the spirit consciousness releases into a portal of God’s light seen/felt at the moment of death. This light is of a positive frequency and can only absorb consciousness of a matching positive frequency.

There are several people who are not positive at the moment of death. The consciousness of sadness which people die with remains in the air and affects the thoughts of people concerned with the spirit like his/her family members, friends, relatives who stay connected in memory , lovers, soulmates and future incarnations.

Death is an illusion. Nobody dies. The spirit just eaves one body and enters another. If it gets released completely, it comes back in a future incarnation and a healthy environment. Most spirits do not get released completely and get fragmented into several parts which join different bodies.

If you are overweight, confused, anxious, depressed or have diseases in your body, it is normal to have a spirit attachment which is perpetuating the problems.

However, this consciousness of the dead person is made of energy or air. There is no physical body which remains and which can harm. The consciousness can only influence your thinking and transfer feelings of sadness by energy vibrations but it cannot touch you just as air cannot touch you.

The spirit can create mental tension in you but cannot hit you just as air cannot hit a physical form. The ghosts can make you indulge in self harm by inflicting thoughts of suicide inside you or it can make you doubt your self -worth. The spirits can also make you behave badly with others assuming that the other people are harming you and the spirit can make you hate yourself if it’s the spirit of person who dislikes you.
Spirit attachments carry over from past lives also of lovers or enemies who died while trying to kill you. Revengeful spirits remain in your aura and make you underestimate our own power. Ghosts of enemies which you killed in anger, in past lives get attached to your body in intense moments of emotion and make you lose your self-confidence by consistently attacking you with negative thoughts.
Spirits of alive people who you abuse emotionally also enter you and keep talking in your mind like incessant chatter which makes you anxious and restless. But, unlike as shown in television or horror films, the ghosts cannot kill you or eat you physically.
Spirits need to be released into light through learning spirit release therapy or going for a spirt release session. Releasing spirits increases peace of mind and reduces over-weight, cravings and addictions. Diseases also get healed by removing spirit attachments and your own past life personalities who died in moments of anguish.

Removing spirits into light is beneficial work as it cleanses air of negative thinking .A non released spirit is engrossed in thoughts of sadness and sorrow and its energy revolves around a negative focal point. This spirit can enter a body which sympathizes or welcomes it in as happens with people whose parents or lovers die.

If you hold onto a memory of a lover or parent, you force that energy to remain in the same cycle of sadness it died in. But if you detach from the memory, you allow the soul to go on wars with its journey of soul evolution, free of ties and problems of the life which has ended.
Spirits do not need your fear. They are lost souls without a body; which are like beggars standing in rain without a house to go into. They need your help to go into a positive dimension from which they can be reborn in a new healthy body.

Techniques of spirit release are given in my book REDEFINING HAPPINESS, which are researched and proven as safe. I have seen people heled of diseases after spirit release as I am a trained spirit release therapist. Instead of cultivating fear, please help yourself and the lost souls to get freedom from mental torture by sending memories of dead people into sunlight.

This spirit remains sad as long as it remains unreleased. It remains in cycles of revenge and sorrow but it cannot hurt you unless you choose to believe its thought suggestions and hurt yourself.
Though going to a therapist is advisable, the books I write aim at self empowerment . The book REDEFINING HAPPINESS is available on amazon.com as paperback and kindle version. Please check the preview and reviews on the link below.

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MURDER CAN BE KARMICALLY AMENDED ONLY BY GIVING BACK HOMES/HAPPINESS TO HOMELESS PEOPLE



Ghosts are alive consciousness without a  body . Their body has died but consciousness remains alive. Usually, spirits and ghosts get attached as energy to the person who killed them , if death is by murder . However, in a normal routine death, the spirits or ghosts when unreleased stay with family members or with lovers , that is, people who keep thinking about them. Body sharing is likee home sharing for spirits .

The body is the house of the soul. When the body is gone and the soul remains alive, it seeks a house . From an energy perspective, justice can be given to a soul without a  house by providing him or her with a house which was snatched away when it died . Hence, if a soul dies suddenly as in murder or accident, it has to be given back a home to continue with its purpose of life.

When you are responsible for another's death, and that person is not ready to die, you have to give back the space to live which you tool away as a policeman, a criminal or an alcoholic .If you build a real brick house, and give it free to a similar soul or several souls in similar need, you repay your karma energetically on the physical plane . If you do not build a house and the spirits are not released , they will share your body and all the benefits you can give them as the soul always attains justice.Sometimes, when spirits share your body, you lose connection with your own body and the spirit's choices take over your mind.

The connection of the spirit with a human body is through consciousness. The spirits connects to an alive person mentally. The spirit cannot actually hit or murder you physically but the spirit can enter someone else;s body and make that person murder you by controlling his mind. The spirit which may have loved you before death and now stays in your body out of affection can make you mentally distressed , sick and diseased or restless.


Karma plays a role in spirit release which is necessary for you to find happiness by controlling your own subconscious choices . If you have killed someone, you will find happiness only if you take on a life path where you give life purpose back to the person you killed in another body or to several people.

For example, Indian film actor , Salman Khan was arrested for killing people on the street. Karmically, remaining jailed would help him only if he regrets and meditates in the jail to calm down his mind and exhale positive energy. However, if he remains restless, then the soul would not get redemption by being jailed. Karmic payback would include  a life path where he joins a program to build homes for several people, where he promotes welfare of homeless so that the mistake he did by alcohol driving is not repeated because people have homes and do not live on the streets.

It is better to repay karma in the present life than carry over the suffering to the next life . The sooner you repay karma, the easer it is to attain good health and peace of mind with happiness.

Forgiving the self is the first step towards moving on towards God's path . Only when you forgive the self, can you do good work for others ; because to do good, you have to believe you are good and radiate out positive energy with each feeling you focus upon.

Once a person is branded as bad, he becomes badder as everyone around gloat on his being bad. But this person loses his peace of mind and sanity as the soul refuses to stay in a body which thinks it is bad .The soul is always positive in frequency and a positive energy vibration mismatches with a negative thinking pattern. When your soul leaves your body, you feel and behave like a puppet to other people's thinking. The demons control you by making you believe you area  murderer and then making you murder more .

The only way out of this trap of vicious cycle of negativity is to decide to do good for similar souls who you hurt in the past , physically or emotionally, by a conscious choice to heal the self and others.

Also, the spirits which you have killed or who have died in near friends or families have to be released as is covered in the next blog .

For more on this topic, please read the book IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS :
http://www.amazon.in/Past-Lives-Affect-Present-Parts/dp/1518649823/ref=sr_1_4?
ie=UTF8&qid=1446965738&sr=8-4&keywords=swati+shiv

 A shorter version of this book is avialable by Jaico Publishers :


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Sunday, 11 October 2015

BE AWARE OF YOUR THOUGHTS - THOUGHTS SEND ENERGY WAVES


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Every thought which you focus on has a feeling entailed. The feeling is an electric impulse which is a unit of the soul’s vibration. Your thoughts create your reality.

If you focus on positive thoughts of love and happiness, you will send out vibrations of energy which create the same feelings in your life. If you focus on problems in life, you will find yourself being surrounded by problems on an increasing basis.

Life is a creation of your soul. You create your life yourself by the feelings you focus upon. If you have been used to focusing on problems, your life would be full of problems in the present. You will find problems everywhere around you; and you will find more reasons to focus on problems.

The belief that LIFE IS DIFFICULT sows seeds for life to remain difficult. Your circumstances do not decide the feelings which you focus on. Your choice of which feelings to focus upon decides your circumstances.

Every belief has its pros and cons. For examples, if you believe LIFE IS EASY, you may find that all your needs are fulfilled by your surroundings without enough challenges or career growth. However, a positive belief that LIFE IS EASY would bring more harmony and peace in your life than a belief that LIFE IS DIFFICULT.


Beliefs are created by repetition of feelings in the subconscious mind. You keep talking to yourself silently the whole day and the belief which you focus upon keeps moving you like an energy cycle.

Hence, to change you life from sad to happy or sick to healthy or difficult to easy, you have to be aware of the feelings which you focus upon.

The more you decide to focus on feeling positive, be it in reality or imagination, the more your life would appear positive to you.

The more you carry over tensions of others; the more you worry about everybody’s problems; the more you complain about the nation; the more you spread negative energy from your core.



Most people are addicted to thinking negatively. If they cannot find problems in their own life, they start worrying about the children’s problems or the nation’s problems. The more they worry, the more they aggravate the energy of problems.

If fire is burning the jungle, just complaining that the fire is burning will not dissolve the fire. You can either take action to quench the fire or you can ignore the fire and walk away. Talking about the fire burning the jungle without taking any action or without detaching away from it, adds fuel to the fire. You thoughts are like petrol which increase positive or negative energies in your life.
http://www.amazon.com/COURSE-EMOTIONAL-MANAGEMENT-Integrating-Happiness-ebook/dp/B01573WM96/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1444557195&sr=8-1&keywords=shiva+swati

Sunday, 4 October 2015

CORRUPTION - IS A RESULT OF A BELIEF THAT GOODS & FOOD BUY HAPPINESS






 Politicians represent society . Corruption on the surface represents corruption hidden in the heart of people ...........


 When the need for fame and power rules over need for happiness, love and good health, corruption reigns over people who seek flattery & praise to love themselves.
Where materialism rules over true love & passion, impotence is a common problem faced by men who live to please others over satisfying their own soul needs.
Women freeze in sex and steal from husbands, where clothes and jewelry become symbols of love over emotional support and respect of individuality
Where children are loved only for getting medals and marks, they are taught corruption by parents who equate love with getting success as seen by an external world...."I will love u if the world praise you" is the thought pattern which breeds corruption.....


Corruption is rampant in today’s world.  Everyone is complaining about corruption as a hot topic of discussion, problems and gossip.

However, when we complain about the BAD happening in the external world with passion, we fail to look at the soul’s perspective.

No soul wants to be corrupt by choice. Corruption is a denial of self - worth. Every corrupt person feels a lowering of self –esteem and is internally saddened and compromised by the choice.

Corruption is a result of confusion and conflict in the mind of what is important for happiness. The moment you use unethical means to earn money or fame, you deny the efficacy of the legal structure as a satisfying system to address you needs.

Dirt cannot be cleaned from the surface until the reason for dirt is addressed. Water cannot be cleaned by removing the layer of dirt from the top. If dirt is visible on the surface, there are reasons for dirt at the core which have to be changed for the surface to appear clean.

If corruption exists, it means that there are faults in our education system which create a need in people to become corrupt. There are also faults in mass values and beliefs which glorify money and success at the cost of truth, honesty and happiness. If people continue to be corrupt, it is because society allows corrupt people to acquire respect and fame.



Why would corruption exist if nobody bribed? Why would people cheat their conscience if money was not valued over peace of mind?

Instead of grumbling about corruption existing, we, as a society, need to address the reasons about why corruption exists from the root cause.

Corruption in adulthood is the same as cheating in exams in childhood. Children cheat when they are under pressure to get marks. Marks are a sign of success for children even if they do not learn anything in school and pass by cheating. Similarly, money becomes a criteria of success. People become corrupt to earn money under pressure to perform.

There is so much focus on showing off success through jewelry cars and fancy gadgets that people start thinking that success means happiness. Corruption is encouraged by families who desire to maintain a good image in society even when they stay unhappy inside the house.



Corruption in offices is only a part of the problem. Corruption at the soul level exists in several layers. You are corrupt if you cheat your partner and have sex outside the relationship. You may justify it as a need for love which you do not get in the marriage but if you were not corrupt, you would break the bond ethically and allow the partner to move on with clarity that you no longer serve each other’s requirements.

You are corrupt if you eat food which harms your body because you want to please your family members or friends.

You are corrupt if you allow your children to become irresponsible and drug addicts because you were too busy earning money for their happiness. Your goal of giving your children becomes corrupted when you neglect their needs to earn money.

You are corrupt when you tell yourselves that your parents love you deeply when you have severe issues of low self -worth and feel dis-respected often. Self- esteem issues arise from neglect in childhood and have to be often resolved through age regression and inner child healing.

You are corrupt if you have a good multinational job where you do not need bribes but constantly feel compromised and bored. When you chose to sacrifice your soul potential for money, you betray your own soul and attract corruption from others.

You are corrupt if you stay in a non-loving atmosphere and pretend that everything is well so that other people admire you. If you are true to your own soul needs, you would seek to move away from the atmosphere which does not give you respect to search, for a higher, purer consciousness of love where your needs are reciprocated.

You are corrupt if the need for fame becomes more important to you than your need for the happiness for which you sought fame initially. You cannot be happy or healthy if you neglect satisfaction in life and you sacrifice your love, your space and your values in order to remain famous.



Corruption starts at school level and will remain till children have to be forced to go to school. The choice to make children compromise teaches them the need to cheat their own soul needs in order to please the world. If you wake up children when they are in deep sleep in early mornings, you condition them into being unhappy from the moment they get up. The more children stay unhappy, the more they create happiness as a choice of internal dominant focus.



The thoughts you get up with create your reality as co-creators. If you train children to be unhappy, by ritual, you will create corruption and unhappiness in adults to meet those rituals in adulthood.  

Corruption is always justified by people who are corrupt but is always a sin from the soul’s perspective because it leads to long-term denial of soul’s needs of true happiness.
Corruption can be only changed by changing the schooling system so that children focus on being happy from the moment they get up and keep visualizing happiness as their reality in the process of growing up.



Sunday, 27 September 2015

A COURSE IN EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT - ERASE SAD MEMORIES , CLEAR SOUL ENERGY


Reality is what you perceive of a situation. When you don’t remember an event, it doesn’t exist for you. If a negative memory is deliberately erased by manipulating the energy wires holding the memory in the subconscious mind, it vanishes.



The Course in Emotional Management is a uniquely designed course which helps you connect with your subconscious mind for understanding your core problems and deleting sad memories.
This Course addresses how to access the subconscious mind and understand patterns of thinking which make you feel helpless and act irrationally. The Course covers techniques of Self-Hypnosis which can be used for deleting past sad memories and replacing the subconscious energies with happy feelings for automatically rising to a higher level of happiness in the present.
Attaining happiness is a long-term process but it cannot ever be attained by pursuing success, money or power blindly. Happiness has to be addressed as a goal by itself as this Course signifies. Health and Happiness are synchronized as being healthy is necessary to be happy but it is not possible to be healthy unless you are happy. The release of positive hormones in the body necessary for good health require a focus on feelings of happiness. If Happiness starts dying in life, health automatically starts becoming bad. This Course explains how positive thinking cannot be attained just by rational counselling but requires cleansing the subconscious mind of negative thinking by techniques of energy therapy for transcending negative energies into neutral or positive.
 As this Course helps you access tools of happiness, you will find how optimism, peace of mind and an understanding of inner self are necessary for moving towards happiness in steps.
This book is the first in a series of five books which detail step-wise techniques of accessing, understanding, disciplining and guiding the subconscious needs to attain happiness.  

EXCERPT FROM THE BOOK : A COURSE IN EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT _ MOVING TOWARDS HAPPINESS IN STEPS


Sadness of the past is transcended into peace in the inner self, by understanding the learning which came from the experience. Difficulties are overcome by a choice of the mind to focus on only the learning underlying the difficulty and releasing the problems encountered in the path. Going through difficulties while remaining optimistic is like the soul’s light walking through a dark tunnel which has to be crossed to reach the destination desired where you attain wisdom or a deeper truth.


Once the hold of the negative memory goes away, it doesn’t cause you stress and it doesn’t create undesirable emotional reactions inside you, when a similar situation again recurs. By erasing sadness accumulated in the mind, you create a brighter past. A brighter past creates a brighter future.


However, there might be a learning attached to this memory. Usually, our subconscious mind holds a negative memory because as a soul, we need to learn some lesson of emotional wisdom from it.


Every traumatic /sad memory would have an emotional lesson, which eventually you would need to learn, to release this negative pattern completely.


Sunday, 26 July 2015

SOUL UPLIFTMENT VS. SOCIAL UPLIFTMENT


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Man is a social animal. Human beings live in societies and seek social upliftment to execute power and gain respect. The rat race starts in childhood when teachers praise the children who get more marks. However, as the children grow up, marks no longer matter in the race for money, and power.
Children are taught that money gets them respect. Hence, as long as they keep earning money, they keep respecting themselves irrespective of whether they get fulfillment from their efforts or not.
If people face blocks in earning money, they feel that they are in difficulties and as soon as the money comes in, their social standing will rise again and the difficulties will go away.

However, when money comes in, several more difficulties come along with it. Money tags along responsibilities, work pressures and abuse from those in superiority. Since money comes in with negative energy, it fails again to bring fulfilment. The race continues and there is demand for more and more money but contentment does not come in, in spite of the increase in money power.
Your social standing may rise as you keep focusing on earning money and fame but you will never feel contented inside, unless you make efforts at SOUL UPLIFTMENT.

Contentment comes in only when your soul frequency rises from a lower dimension of being to a higher realm where you can perceive positivity in the same areas which appeared negative earlier. Soul upliftment is the process of becoming more positive and strong emotionally with every choice you make in life.

If you do not want to feel helpless and trapped in cycles of greed and manipulations, you need soul upliftment, not social upliftment.

You may be a celebrity or you may be a common businessman, but your happiness would depend on how powerful you feel as a person inside yourself. You success depends on whether you are able to take decisions which make you feel content as a being inside the body. Very often, for social upliftment, you make several choices which make other people happy but you feel sad, bored and compromised because you are not feeling happy with the way you are forced to live.

 You may follow all rituals and traditions to please God but happiness will not rise till you connect to God at the soul level and make choices in your everyday life which make you feel empowered and not bound in a cage of social appropriateness. God represents freedom, love and happiness. Till you make choices to  feel free, loved and happy, you are not completely receiving the light of God as your mind is preventing you from receiving wisdom from The Higher Force. Surrendering the mind’s worries to light and feeling freedom and love for some time everyday activates a new cycle in your life which is positive from its source.

It is important to take time off for meditation on a daily basis just as you take time off for physical exercise because you want to be healthy or  look physically smart. Meditation helps release negative energies from the brain and makes you mentally smart. Forcing yourself to stop worrying about everyday problems and just surrender your being to feel pure light travel through yourself helps in removing thoughts stuck in chains of traditional conditioning. Consciousness evolves when you allow yourself to meditate and be free from divisions of caste, creed or religion. Everyone is same in God’s realms and it is necessary to feel the Oneness with divine energies to activate your inner potential to find true contentment.

Man has been stuck in cycles of greed and doom. Where greed stops, doom will also stop.

 http://www.amazon.com/Lives-affect-Present-Perspective-Happiness-ebook/dp/B00S6QKZAK/ref=sr_1_3_twi_1_kin?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1437904859&sr=1-3&keywords=swati+shiv

Soul upliftment is not about helping the poor as those who are poor today, become as greedy and selfish when they become rich, as was proved by the French Revolution. (Royalty was eradicated because it was corrupt but corruption did not stop when the common man became king either.) The very nature of the human being has to evolve from being animal like to being God like for the soul to uplift itself from traps of self-created chains of illusions. Social upliftment does not help you make powerful but soul upliftment does. 

Through meditation, you become thoughtless and new power comes in from the gaps of thinking,  which being thoughtless creates. You take in life force from the Creator’s pure, unconditioned being and generate inner power which radiates from inside you and changes your core to being positive. Meditation makes you healthier and happier as social upliftment never can.

Monday, 13 July 2015

Soul Evolution vs/ Soul Devolution – Happiness vs. Helplessness




Soul evolution is the process which is necessary to attain peace and happiness in life. Soul evolution happens through spending time on being in silence with your inner self, meditation, walks, naturopathy and exercise. Your soul energy heals when you make choices to understand your soul needs, your health improves, abundance rises and you feel supported by God. As you keep rising in soul frequency, your connection with the Creator re-opens. You are able to generate more life force and your inner capacity to overcome hurdles and create joy improves.



Happiness for the soul is not the same as attaining success on Earth in terms of earning money or power or fame. Money, power and fame are illusions created by dark forces to trap souls in cycles of misery where they keep searching for contentment but keep running after battles of success. Money, power or fame , directly , do not lead to soul evolution or happiness. Catching the nose from behind is unnecessary effort and does not always help when the nose can be caught easily from the front as well. 

A person who is very rich and arrogant can be miserable inside. A soul whose levels of peace are low cannot be an evolved soul. An evolved soul focuses on being content, healthy and peaceful by choice.
Where there is no soul evolution, peace and happiness erode/vanish with time. The person degenerates in health and loses hope in life. A quest for wisdom is replaced by contentment with compromise. The soul who does not evolve, automatically devolves.

Devolution of the soul means going back to a lower level of quality of existence. You become unhappier because only when you feel crushed by difficult circumstances of life. Difficulties are energies of negative frequencies and can be overcome by feeling peaceful, learning to detach from unnecessary ambitions and finding happiness through different avenues of being. If you remain stuck with one goal of life which your parents or teachers conditioned into your mind, you cannot evolve as a soul with awareness of his /her own inner needs. If you escape difficulties by using alcohol or drugs or prostitutes, you suffer more, overtime and may be reborn as an animal in the next life; wherein you have to solve a much simpler set of difficulty.

You either evolve or devolve as a soul. If you do not rise to a higher level of peace, happiness, health and contentment in the same life; you will devolve to a lower grade of existence where soul tests are simpler.
For example, a man may be born as a dog, cat, ant or a tree in his next life. Typically, you become the animal whose dominant nature pervades over your senses while being a human being. For example, if you feel starved all your life for a flow of love, you may become a camel in the next life where you hoard water (water symbolizes a flow). Similarly, if you have sex with anyone who gives you a little attention or money, you may become a dog who is loyal to anyone who feeds it something. If you kill people emotionally or physically, for power or money, you may become a tiger. Similarly, if you kill people while looking after a tribe, like a robber does, you may become a lion. All animals have a bigger struggle for survival than human beings but their emotional lessons are much simpler.
Most human soul fragments reincarnate as animals, birds or plants in their next life to complete a soul lesson of emotional contentment which is left incomplete in the human life where the mind is preoccupied with other things.

You can also be reborn as a human being in past time. For example, you may die in 2015 A.D., but be reborn in 1920 A.D. or even in 3000 B.C. You can be reborn at any-time where your karma has been left incomplete and you have to complete some soul lessons before you can attain happiness in any future life.

Karma recycles. People who have been very arrogant in one life usually have to live as poor people or in some sickness where they have to accept charity with insults from others. Arrogance is transcended into positive energy by allowing arrogant people to insult you with a detached attitude. The more you become negative when insulted, the more your karmic debt increases. Similarly, if you have been a dacoit, you will be cheated in another life. 

Largely speaking, abusers have to become victims in another life to repay karmic debt and rise to happiness. However, happiness comes through detaching from abusive people and letting go of the benefits they offer by accepting a more peaceful life by choice.

Happiness does not come by abusing others, bullying people and taking away all the rewards for yourself. You get punished by diseases, sickness and other mis-fortunes coming in your life till you learn to detach from money, power and fame and work with a need to evolve your soul to a higher level of peace and contentment.

More of these concepts are covered in my book:

http://www.amazon.com/Lives-affect-Present-Perspective-Happiness-ebook/dp/B00S6QKZAK/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1436852066&sr=8-2&keywords=swati+shiv&pebp=1436852073904&perid=0H62RW23YCTY2BHHA5PG

Are You Positive or Externally Good?

 Also refer : https://sites.google.com/view/swatiraoshiv/blogs/positivty-is-higher-frequency-than-good-as-good-can-be-destructive-of-pos Are...