Tuesday, 8 October 2013

RESCUE FROM GOD

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We on Earth keep asking help from God in every problem. When the problem doesn’t get resolved in the way we want, we think God is powerless.

However, we forget that God is our parents and we are God’s children. As souls, we are all part of one whole. We are all parts of God. God is the ultimate power and we are parts of his power.

God is like the Sun and we are its rays. Each ray gets its light from The Sun. Similarly, each of us gets power to create from the CREATOR.

We come on Earth to learn how to create, as souls. Every challenge we face helps us evolve to being stronger. As we overcome challenges, we become powerful. We start identifying with God. Hence, Challenges and problems come in our life so that we learn how to overcome them and create the life we desire.

If God solved all our problems, we would not learn how to solve them ourselves. God is like a parent and a teacher. God guides us on how to resolve our problems but God cannot solve problems for us.
The problems are our soul lessons. Overcoming difficulties is our work on Earth as souls. If parents did our homework, children will fail in learning.

Similarly when God does our work if we nag too much through miracles, we fail in evolving ourselves. However, when we learn our soul lessons and evolve, miracles happen automatically in our lives as we maintain a positive focus.

When good things start happening in our lives, it means that we are promoted to higher dimensions. In higher dimensions, we are happier people by choice. As the soul gets advanced by overcoming problems, it also faces higher sets of difficulties; just as when a child gets promoted to a higher class, he faces more complicated syllabus.

On Earth, we cum to study on a school of creation in a physical dimension. There are several planes of existence and Earth is one of them. The soul learns to create in different dimensions to improve its ability as part of the Creator.

Time and space exist on Earth but they don’t exist in other dimensions. Hence, the soul feels blocked here in different ways compared to other dimensions of light. Through overcoming blocks by using positive thinking and faith, the soul evolve to happiness, peace and good health.

When we pray to God with complete faith, our belief rises, in ourselves. We feel supported and motivated. God helps us by sending us positive energy which gives us confidence and solutions which can be applied practically.
However, God’s solutions may not match with our desires as God works as the parent. When we ask God for money to buy cars or repay loans, it is like asking chips and chocolate from a parent. If we ask for curing diseases after we fall sick, we are like children who get cold because we eat too much ice-cream.
Diseases arise because of carelessness in eating, drinking and negative thinking. If God doesn’t help us, it is because we have to learn to think right and stop being lazy & carefree as souls.

To create a happy and positive life is our responsibility as souls. We often need to let go of all those traditions which make us believe that being negative is good.
Four institutions which cause negativity in our society are schooling, heath sector, marriage and army culture.
 These four institutions need to be restructured in a way that flexibility is promoted in thought than rigidity. They teach misguided values as they fail to hold what they were created for.
We have to change our thinking as conditioned by these institutions to become positive. Like we have to stop performing for competition, as taught in schools; instead we need to perform for being the best we can ourselves sin areas where our talents exist.
Marriage is for lovers. We need to stay married as long as we can love and evolve together. If there is more misunderstanding in marriages than love, it creates negativity and diseases in partners. If we think differently as we evolve, we have to realize our karma is over and we have to


Let go or learn to think alike. As long as love remains, marriage is positive. But if thinking is very different, love ceases to hold the couple together from within. Then, the lesson is to be flexible and let go.
The health sector needs to focus on soul needs as it focuses on the body. The soul creates diseases in the body when the mind is negative. Through positive thinking, we heal the mind and the body. If we just take medicines, the problems come back in body in another form. But, if we exchange our negative thinking, the problems go from the root cause.
Armies are a huge expenditure on the state. The same money can be used to improve education and health awareness. Armies would not be needed if national boundaries are dissolved and the world could operate as one. In earlier times, we needed boundaries to protect resources but not in today’s internet world. Now, we use technology to unite as one. Violence can be controlled by the police. If armies are dissolved, belief in bull strength over logic would subside. Communication ability will improve as people would make efforts to think better and evolve to happiness through improved communication. 

Thus, God helps us through guiding us how to destroy that which is redundant and create a happier world for ourselves and others, from the depths of our being.


Overcoming negative thinking is akin to overcoming drug addiction


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Shifting to positive thinking is difficult, essentially, because negative thinking acts like an addiction in the body. It affects the supply of hormones in the body, just as drugs or alcohol or eating junk food does.
Hormones are produced in the body in response to the kind of feelings we focus upon. Focusing on happiness releases positive hormones in the body, whereas focusing on present worries or past disappointments, releases negative hormones in the body.
Whether we release more stress hormones in our body or more positive hormones depends on whether we focus on more anxiety prone feelings, or more belief prone feelings.

 When we focus on anxiety, our focus is negative because we are anxious that our desires would not come true; whereas if we focus on belief, we are sure that our dreams would manifest into reality as the energies we focus on, would multiply.
So, if we desire happiness from a certain experience in the future, and focus on experiencing that happiness in the present in imaginations or virtual reality mindsets, then we would release more positive hormones in the body.
By releasing positive hormones, our health and fitness would become better and we would gradually develop immunity to disappointments. Our blood supply would get addicted to positive hormones and we would not be able to stay unhappy, by choice because our energies would rebel.

Thus, the initial shift of focus from being unhappy to being happy is difficult since it requires huge amounts of mind control, to prevent the mind from swaying into negativity. But, once the shift is made, it becomes much easier to maintain a positive focus.

However, the process of manifestation takes time . Metaphorically, till the desire manifests, it is like waiting for milk to boil . The milk shows no signs of boiling but suddenly, the milk boils and starts over pouring. Similarly, till the desire manifest, it appears that it is not manifesting. The frequency change from the state of non manifesting to the state of being in the desire , is sudden.

In this period of waiting, our efforts at positive visualization appear to be failing. The energy shift is invisible except at the level of feelings; and feeling positive requires deliberate mind control to be sustained. Accepting reality as unchanging and resorting to feeling negative again seems as the easy way out than forcing ourselves to stay positive. Negative thinking is addictive and it pulls.

Quitting any addiction causes a temporary imbalance in the usual flow of hormones in the body which causes the body to get into in a state of disequilibrium. Leaving negative thinking also makes us feel shaky and more anxious in the beginning.
Our external reality does not change overnight. While visualizing on positive feelings in our mind, we have to keep battling with a negative reality which is already existent.
Focusing on the negativity outside works against the positive reality which we are trying to manifest.
With consistent focus, our external reality starts changing but change starts happening first in areas about which we are less bothered. Our deeper desires take longer to manifest because we may have had negative experiences in those areas in the past. Desires manifest faster when we are neutral, but worry pre-dominates in areas where we are deeply attached emotionally.

At this intermediate stage , we have to keep our faith strong and break free from our need to stay worried. We have to tolerate the imbalance or uneasiness we feel in our body during the period of the shift from staying negative to trying to be positive, with the belief that positivity would win.

This state of internal balance leads to an equilibrium being established in the body which is a point in which the person feels safe. If the supply of energies falls below this equilibrium point, or rises above it, the body can go into a state of panic and try hard to restore its equilibrium back.

 This equilibrium position is not necessarily an optimal position for the person but once it gets fixed, the person starts operating on it by default.

            The equilibrium position directs the energy flow in the body. If a person is used to thinking negatively, then the electric energy discharge created by feelings is more negative than positive. Hence, more negative hormones flow in the body than positive hormones. Overtime, if the person gets used to feeling negative, then a negative balance gets established.

            If a negative balance has been established, a shift to positive thinking leads to an unpleasant state of disequilibrium in the body, as the hormonal balance of the body gets disturbed.
            This happens because the regular supply of negative hormones in the bloodstream stops, since the negative energy supply gets cut off.
            A new set of hormones are produced, which feel unfamiliar in the body . The positive hormonal discharge in the body is resisted as the equilibrium position gets threatened. We do not want to tell ourselves we are happy because we believe we are unhappy. Our problems keep demanding our attention like little children who are used to being pampered and do not like being suddenly disciplined.

During the period of change, we feel mentally and physically unstable and want to go back to our usual familiar state of being.
For instance, as in dieting we crave for our usual rich foods, during mind control, we crave to feel stressed and sick. It feels too unusual and scary to suddenly believe everything is good.  

            We, subconsciously, keep looking for reasons to give up on believing happiness exists. When we cannot believe happiness can exist, we cannot create it in our future, as energy multiplies with focus.
             As we keep finding or manifesting problems, we feel justified in feeling negative again. Often, we feel as if we would die if we do not resort to thinking negatively, like during dieting, we feel we would die if we don’t eat some fatty foods or a chain smoker feels he would dies if he does not get another cigarette.

            For example, if we are unhappy with a house and need to change it to stop feeling negative, then we,  ideally,  need to focus on being in a house which makes us feel at peace, before worrying about how to shift the house.
            However, if we start imagining feeling at peace in a house, our mind starts bringing up several other problems, because of which we cannot feel at peace.
            Now, if we continue to focus on the feelings of peace, they would manifest and little changes would start manifesting in our external reality. Though, the change of the house may take time to manifest.
             When we remove the clutter in our mind, the congestion in our external world would automatically, reduce. Overtime, our belief systems would undergo several layers of change before we shift to a more spacious space , in a way that we are more at peace.
           
            But, in the interim period, we may break our dream of shifting to another house, by giving in to the worrying. Due to the habitual worrying, we would convince ourselves that we would get into severe difficulties if we do not think about our problems.
            Worrying is a negative vibration and does not help in finding solutions; whereas viewing the problem objectively can help us detach from it and find real solutions. But, we still choose to worry than move on to create peace in our minds.
            The desire of the body is to go back to releasing negative hormones and being in its suboptimal equilibrium state. As we try to shift out of our negative mind-set by externally trying to shift to another house, we face inertia and exhaustion, just as a fat man faces exhaustion while exercising to be fit.
           
            There is always the nagging doubt that shifting house needs a focus on money, and not on positive visualization or creating internal peace. Yet, if we shift the house while feeling negative internally, shifting the house, per se, would not give us peace. If our mind set is anxious, we would feel congested in a different way in the new, spacious house.
            We would again want to do something to get out of the house and find peace.

            So, the real desire we have is to find space and that space has to be first created internally for it to manifest externally, in a way that we actually feel at peace by taking the action of shifting the house.
             Also, if we can create the feeling of peace internally, shifting the house may no longer appear a priority. We can create space in our mind from work pressure or the pressure of relationships by shifting our focus to other creative tasks, which may give us more soul satisfaction.
            Overtime, with sustained focus, it is possible that we change our job or a dead marriage breaks and we move on to feeling at peace, automatically. Once we are in a more positive vibration, we would leave a negative house, automatically as our energy would not tolerate its low frequency. The external shift to a new house will happen smoothly, after the internal vibration is shifted to a higher soul frequency.

            Once, we know how to feel peaceful in our mind, then, shifting the house would help enhance our already positive focus. But, if we shift our house without feeling at peace within, it would not help us be much happier.  When we take action without cleansing our internal energies, it is like exercising without dieting.

 .          The need to be negative is strong while feeling positive is consistently resisted by our habitual negatively inclined belief systems. The mechanisms of the body seek to re-establish the original balance position by questioning the mental change. So, even though temporary shifts may take place, the energy currents in the body try their best to ensure that the person gets pulled back into negative thinking, repeatedly.

 Many a time, the pull of the negative energy is so strong that  even after a few weeks or a few months of trial of feeling positive, the person again goes back to feeling constantly negative, just as an addict often goes back to eating junk food or smoking or consuming alcohol.
            The person’s sense organs are on the alert to pick up any negative information, which convinces the person that feeling negative is the right way of being.

            For instance, in the above example of wanting to shift the house to be at peace, the person may start with the exercise of mind control to feel at peace within. However, the peace would not come overnight as creation takes time to manifest. In the intermittent period, the person may meet several people who claim to meditate but are not at peace or people who mock the whole concept of needing to feel positive within to create happiness externally. There would be examples where people would have been able to shift houses without any attempt to feel at space internally.

             The person would pick up these kinds of information from his environment because his energy currents want him to go back to feeling negative. The positive feelings which he focuses on create positive currents in the body which feel unfamiliar and hence, unrealistic.
           
            There may be several people who would be feeling at peace through mind control exercises, but this person would not notice them because he does not want to. He wants to disbelieve and doubt the whole process of mastering consciousness to feel positive, so that he can go back to his usual state of energy balance.
            Hence, this person, on picking up negative information from his environment, may start feeling unhappy again and give up on trying to feel positive from within, before any visible change occurs in his external reality.

            When we go back to feeling negative, we may feel back in familiar grounds but the negative effects, also start re-emerging. Just as by re-starting junk food we again start putting on weight, by focusing on the negative aspects of life we again go back to feeling constantly depressed, sick or angry. The whole cycle gets broken and repeated several times before a positive balance can take root in the body.

            To establish a positive equilibrium position in the body, where the person can feel healthy and at peace; the disequilibrium position has to be tolerated till it can be deleted. The mind has to stand firm on staying positive inspite of all setbacks, and thus, the pressure to go back to feeling negative gets deliberately ignored.
            A huge amount of conscious mind control, over long periods is needed, along with a motivation to change core belief systems which have made us focus on the negative, up till now.
           
            However, it is only by learning how to master the negative energies in a physical body, can we live the life we desire on Earth and achieve the purpose of our incarnation, as souls. A persistent attitude towards learning how to control our feelings so that they can be redirected to the positive is a prerequisite, in being able to expect or create a positive reality.


Saturday, 5 October 2013

CONCEPT OF THE SOUL - REALITY OR ILLUSION ?


This is an excerpt from the book
CREATION OF HAPPINESS : THE ENERGY WAR , a soul's perspective :


Studying optical Illusions is not only relevant for science students …   illusions rule our everyday lives, with or without our conscious awareness…….
            To prevent ourselves from swaying into worries and depressions, which are usually a paradox of negative belief vs. illusion - we need to often ask ourselves – Do we believe what we see or do we see only that which we already believe in?”

When we start reading about metaphysical concepts, our first mind-set is often that of speculation. Could concepts like the souls being creators or the existence of an alternate world be real; as real as the fact that a wooden table is made of wood, or are they simply illusions, a part of a fantasy world, which may or may not exist?

While worrying about what is reality or truth, and what is illusion or fantasy, in abstract aspects of life, we need to be aware that reality is not an absolute concept, but more a matter of perception. Everything is not made of wood and hence cannot be measured on the same scale.
The concept of the soul is an abstract concept, as concepts like truth, honesty, God or heaven are.  The belief that the soul exists cannot be seen or touched by the naked eye, as the wooden chair can be. Yet, it can prove to be very useful in helping us understand our inner selves.
Those who have a problem with believing in the term ‘soul’, can also use alternate terms like ‘‘the inner self’, ‘the me within’ etc.
      Knowing ourselves from within is necessary so that a resonance is achieved between our inner needs of evolution and our material needs.
     
      This resonance between external/material or bodily needs, and our internal/emotional or soul needs works to ensure that the efforts we put in towards achieving what we desire externally, get us rewards which give us satisfaction from within . Otherwise, it has often been experienced in our world that hard work gets us success and money, but does not necessarily lead to happiness.

Finding ourselves, as souls, helps to break this recurring dichotomy between the needs of the body and those of the soul. When we discover our soul identity, we break free from the negative clutches of a so-called reality of life, towards an alternate perception of reality, i.e., the reality of life as viewed from our soul’s perspective.

For example, a life-threatening problem which may cause us intense anxiety from the worldly perspective appears an illusion from the perspective of the soul which cannot die. When we realize this illusory dimension of worldly matters, we seek to understand what the soul is gaining from creating these negative experiences, which are essentially unreal.  That knowledge aids us in healing ourselves by defeating the fatalism within us.
In this process, we arrive at a more complex dynamics of all that which life on Earth entails, from the soul’s perspective of evolution Thus, we reach a higher level of consciousness.

Entering the world of the soul is a step by step process, which begins with finding how our subconscious mind works, because our subconscious mind is the channel through which information passes from the body to the soul and vice versa.

In this book, we use a logic based approach to understand the world of our soul. The intention is to bring the soul out of the world of magic, into a sphere of scientific logic ,wherein we can understand its energies and use them with conscious, rational awareness to create exactly what we desire in life,  in the emotional or physical plane.
This is necessary to remove the fear of the unseen realms from our rational minds so that we can focus on our dreams without being dwarfed by fearing the unexpected, the worst or the unknown.

From the soul’s perspective, by developing knowledge of the invisible world of the soul, we make our soul’s presence active while making everyday choices of life. Instead of worshipping God on a pedestal, we allow ourselves to take action in alignment with the energies of the Oneness. We, thus, put light on the hidden or dark parts of our energies and clear channels for the Creator’s power to work with us.


We start entering the world of our soul by finding how our subconscious mind perceives the external world, how we form a positive or negative interpretation of reality, and how our perception affects our deep sense of identity. This knowledge would later help us decipher how our soul uses the physical body to achieve its purpose of incarnation on Earth.

Friday, 4 October 2013

ARMIES __ do we need guns or peace if there was a clear choice ?

            DO WE MAINTAIN ARMIES DUE TO CORE FEAR BELIEFS AND TALK OF PEACE TO CONSOLE OURSELVES?
           
          

          If there was a choice between armies and peace, would we disarm ourselves and move into logical solutions than keep guns in our back pockets ? As long as there are armies, it shows that we still do not completely believe that peace can exist in the world. The world is a s we believe it to be. Till we believe the world is negative, it will be so.

            We maintain armies in fear of the enmies but that fear shows our core beliefs are still primitive.
            The feelings we focus on create reality. We can talk endlessly about good things but continue to feel fear, as the primitive man did. Our actions show our real beliefs. 

If           As we choose to maintain armies, nuclear weapons and divisions amongst religions, it shows that we are afraid.
            Fear is a habit than a reality. We stay afraid because we are used to staying afraid from olden times when there were real threats since man was evolving from being animal to being human . The threats are gone now due to evolution but  when we believe there is threat, we create the threats in reality. We create all that we fear in our minds as our feelings create reality .

            There is no real threat in today’s world but we maintain armies and ensure that we love in threat because we are habituated to living in fear. We are no longer a primitive society where we can be robbed by neighboring communities because of scarcity of resources. There  has been huge technological development and there is no real scarcity of resources, except in our minds.
            We need to move into DISARMAMENT not play war games in our minds to feel thrilled. The more we focus on wars and enemies, the more we create them in our own reality.

            As is explained in the book CREATION OF HAPPINESS: THE ENERGY WAR, a soul's perspective:

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            As souls, we keep repeating the same type of experiences at the emotional level, over years and over life-times, irrespective of material or technological development in the external world. We keep feeling the same way, internally, because we remain in the same energy cycle.

             For instance, a focus on self defense, from outsiders would have begun in the primitive man’s society. A new realization of feeling insecure would have created the need in the primitive man to use weapons for defending her/his belongings from predators.
            The new realization acted as the stone in a pool of water and motivated energy movement. Once activated, the energy continued to repeat itself. The need to defend ourselves still remains a dominant focus in the human mind, as is evident, when we choose to spend huge amounts of our development funds on the defense industry.
            If we care to stop our repetitive thought process, for a few brief moments of awareness, we would arrive at a subsequent new realization which would make the old focus point obsolete. We need to STOP AND RETHING our beliefs. There are technological communications all over the world. Resources can move from areas of surplus to poor areas . its just a matter of choice, because the rich wont get pooer by spreading the resources,. In fact, a huge amount of food and medicines are thrown in the Sea to maintain monopolies. Instead, they can be given as charity to spread positivity but we need to make a choice to stop feeling afraid of losing if we share.
            The negative energy cycle of fear can stop only if we focus on stopping the current by shifting the focus of our thinking, with awareness. It cannot stop by itself because energy has to flow; and it would keep flowing wherever we focus. Till we focus differently, we automatically remain in the same energy cycle.
            By changing the energy cycle and looking beyond the previously established beliefs that we have to defend ourselves from enemies, we would realize that the external technological changes, have made the concept of needing weapons for the self-defense of countries, almost redundant.
            Scarcity does not exist today as it did in the old days. Therefore, there is actually no rational danger from enemies, except at the level of competitive self-interest.

            Our fear is an outcome of a focus on negative feelings. We are conditioned, subconsciously, into believing that each human being is happier by defeating another. Hence, we have to compete or we would be attacked because that is the nature of being human, which is totally false. Human beings like to share joys and laughter together, if their survival is not threatened.
            It is a lack of awareness about the human mind and an inability to distinguish it from the animal mind, which makes us spend huge financial resources on weapons that could otherwise , be used to spread love and peace; and benefits of technological development for all.
            Being humans, we can create with our thought process unlike animals. If we focus on enemies being there, we would create them with our focus. The more we invest on weapons, the more we would tell ourselves that  we have enemies to justify our expenditure.

The external world is a manifestation of the feelings we focus on.  It keeps manifesting itself more and more creatively, as we keep reinforcing the same feelings and mobilizing energies towards that kind of manifestation.
            Like, earlier we chose to fight wars with swords. Now, we choose to fight with guns or bombs, yet, the experience at the level of feelings remains the same—we continue mentally fighting in both cases; albeit, guns are a higher and more complex form of creation than swords are. The pattern of repetition gets reinforced with continuous focus and keeps manifesting itself in newer, more evolved forms.
            If we instead, focused on spreading compassion and love, and neutralizing our negative tendencies by no longer fuelling them with our insecurities, we would reinforce the creation of a happier world. .

             
When we pay taxes for  maintaining armies for self-defense is concerned, we need to re-evaluate the efficacy of national boundaries in spreading happiness across the world. It is possible that we are continuing with national boundaries out of habit/tradition, than a need for safety. Energies multiply with focus and enmity exists between countries because we focus on it having been there. The more we focus on past wars, competition and fear , the more we perpetuate negativity. We maintain national boundaries because they have been there and we try not to change that which exists, out of inertia. Thus, the concept of countries continues and hence, we need armies to protect them.

National boundaries were needed in the Olden days when scarcity was the norm and we did not have technology to spread resources from one place to another. But, with the current technological development, the concept of the nation has become notional, and may be blocking the spread of developmental benefits all over the world, rather than facilitating growth.

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Wednesday, 2 October 2013

LIFE IN HEAVEN



As souls on Earth, we always dream of a life like in heaven. We desire perfect happiness, perfect bliss, peace and love.
However, we don’t focus on what we have e to give up on to realize that kind of bliss.
As free souls, we live in heaven. We are not bound by Physical bodies but we are bound by a spirit body. The spirit body is far lighter than a physical body, made of finer intensity.
We float around in spirit bodies a sphere is no gravity.
Life in heaven is supposed to be very similar to life on Earth except that there is nothing negative. There is no competition amongst souls.  
There are schools in heaven where souls go to learn. There are colonies where likeminded souls live together. There are karmic libraries. There are Buddhist meditation centers, music al chorus, dance schools.

There are also hospitals and research laboratories where human minds are studied. All the research that we conduct here is supposed to be guided by souls in haven. When we suddenly arrive at a solution,  it is because the thought is put into us by some scientist from heaven.
Hospitals help heal souls who have died in trauma on Earth. The healing is purely on metaphysical  planes , of chakras and energy meridians of the soul. The medicines used are created by using the Sun’s energy. The energies and oxygen are very pure and hence far more effective than on Earth. Also, souls heal faster in heaven as the atmosphere is very peaceful.

Everyone lives in peace in heaven. There are no class distinctions or religious discriminations. Each soul is free to live the way she or he wants and worship any God. The Gods visit heaven and the souls can connect to them in pure light. The souls do not feel alone or unloved ever as the presence of God is always there.
Some souls live in big houses like palaces , some live in small units of love. The house is not a representation of status . The soul is free to live in any kind of house without worrying about reputation or public opinion. People who live in small houses are as respected as those who live in big houses.

Souls can connect to each other easily as communication is through thought. Meeting any soul be it God or king , is not a  problem for any soul who chooses to be a commoner. Several souls choose to lead simple lives and partake in pleasing activities like singing, dancing or teaching than take on unnecessary stress. Only the more advances souls, take on responsibility of several others and are in positions of authority.
However, authority in heaven means giving love to several fellow human beings and helping them with kindness to live lives happily.
There is no power given in heaven without responsibility to heal other souls. Equality and love are the norms to live by.
On Earth, if w e want to live like heaven , we would have to give up competition. We would need to start measuring success by how much it impresses our own soul than impress others.  Souls in heaven pursue desire as they like  without any fear of survival.
As we move towards being like in heaven, we, human beings will have to evolve above fears of survival. The soul is eternal and a disease is largely metal. If we can train our mind to be positive, we can evolve to be healthy and happy always , as in heaven.

As is explained in my book CREATION OF HAPPINESS: THE ENERGY WAR in detail


            Death is considered a healing process for the soul or life force energy, as long as it is not suicide or murder. All other kinds of death are planned by the soul before incarnating in the body.
            The soul plans four-five exit points in a life-time, where it can choose to quit a role, if it feels life is becoming too difficult and it is not learning its soul lessons anymore. 

            The exit/death points can include accidents, a fatal illness, a heart attack etc, and all these events which may appear sudden or saddening from the worldly perspective, are actually a part of the soul’s plan to exit at a given point from the Earth plane.

            Death, for the eternal soul, is like leaving school and going back home. After death of a body, the soul, as the free spirit, joins its Higher Self, which always remains in the Light (the term’ Light ‘is synonymous with Heaven/ celestial plane, for the purposes of this book. It is a dimension where positive energy frequencies are much higher than on Earth).

            Like, we can recharge a battery by connecting it to the main electricity line, the soul or the spirit gets recharged after a life by reconnecting to its Higher Self in the LIGHT. It gets refreshed and rejuvenated with energy

Some other books  which are referred to here are –
THE OTHER SIDE OF LIFE by SYLVIA BROWNIE
LAWS OF THE SPIRIT WORLD by Bhavnagiri Khorshed
DESTUINY OF SOULS by Michael Newton

IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS ( how past lives affect the present) – By Swati Shiv

Charity .... how does it help our soul brigten as happier or darken as unhappier


Our soul comes in a  human body to brighten itself. The soul brightens when it feels powerful in some way. the more powerful the soul is, the closer it is to God , the most powerful being. The happier we feel, the healthier we are.

Helping another person makes us feel powerful ideally and hence, increases happiness. If the helping action does not make us feel powerful, it makes us feel unhappier and darkens our soul..

Charity is an action of help. Charity creates positive karma and  helps to erase negative karma if the intention is positively to help concretely. Charity done the positive /right way helps us break free from feeling helpless.

However, the soul doesn't evolve through actions but through feelings. Feelings are electric impulses which impact energy radiation. Soul is an energy and it evolves when we add on to its positive energy with feeling happy. 

The soul evolves when we feel positive while thinking about the action and continue to feel positive while doing the act. The positive energy radiated by feeling happy, helps the soul become advanced and powerful.

Charity is like any other act which we do to feel happy. Charity has several dimensions to it. Help may not be given only through money.Charity may also be given as food, clothes, support etc. 

 Charity is also given as energy, as love, as sharing knowledge, as blessings, as forgiveness etc. A mother gives charity when she leaves her job for the kids but she evolves only when she is happier with the kids than in the job. A father gives charity if he chooses to stay with a wife he doesn't love for the sake of the kids but the charity helps only if the kids and father feel happier by that choice. If the mother or the father feel negatively sacrificed like goats, the charity backfires and creates more negative karma than positive. 


We give charity to save taxes. We also give charity when we want to support a cause. We also give charity when someone we love asks for help. But, does all charity help our soul evolve to a higher level of happiness?

The answer is no. Charity helps the soul evolve only when the person giving it believes that he is genuinely helping another soul feel better through giving the charity.  The person has to feel acknowledged for giving the charity in a  way that he feels powerful and positive by helping. If we give charity to remove a load from our heads and continue feeling sad , charity doesnt help. 

The charity helps if its changes our own thought process to more positive. That  can happen only if the charity is given by sacrificing our time and  energy in some way which is unusual, non routine . When the routine changes, the soul's inner vibrations record the charity. If it is a routine act of help, the soul may even feel negatively sacrificed and 

If we give charity only to pep ourselves, it has that much affect only. It peps us up for some time and then we feel depressed again.

However, if we give charity because we truly love someone, we sacrifice some part of ourselves for giving that charity. The release of our soul energy to give charity is replaced by a positive energy as our happiness increases because of giving charity.

Our soul evolves only when our happiness rises.
The soul does not evolve when we help someone while feeling negative within ourselves. When we feel sacrificed through an act, the effect of charity is harmful for our happiness.
Charity is just another action we use to repay our negative karma. Negative karma is repaid when we replace negative energy in our lives with positive. Happiness increases positive energy.
Happiness comes when our contribution influences another person in a way that our consciousness expands, as the Creator.
If we spend our money on buying material things like clothes or cars, we don’t rise much in terms of happiness. We try to impress others by looking good. But, looking good doesn’t lead to feeling good.

However, charity helps if we can feel good within by giving the charity. If we give the charity selflessly, without attaching ego with it, we release a part of ourselves into the Light. That helps clear negative energy for the soul.
In our world, there are several rich people who feel poor. There is abundance among several people but they feel more negative than the poor people. They try to compensate by giving small time charities but it doesn’t help them in feeling better because they spend a lot more of their money on material pleasures. If the energy spent on God’s work is less than the energy spent on non God’s work, then we feel empty inside, on an average. There is science behind this as life force comes from god. When we feel complete and content, we resonate with God's life force. But when we smile aimlessly, attend formalities and work for time pass than pleasure, then we go against God. The emptier we feel in these activities, the more our negativity rises. Just preaching good words or reading about spirituality doesn’t help unless we can take action and make choices to be positive, free of the negative.


Therefore, when you give charity, give it without feeling negative in any way. Do not give charity out of pity or sympathy or a ritual. Do not encourage people to be dependent and obligated to increase your own power. Do not give charity to people who are negative  and who keep asking for money to fill their boredom.

Give charity if it can be given with a  belief that it will karmic ally increase your own happiness in some way. Charity helps to create positive karma when  you are sure  that God will repay you back with increased strength and positivity .


The action does not matter in creating positive karma. An act of service done with a negative intention may increase problems in your life.  It is the positive intention or the feelings which are associated behind the actions, which create positive karmic cycles and raise your well being. 

Tuesday, 1 October 2013

IS SEX BLESSING OR SIN ?




Sexuality has been a major conflict in human minds.
While a happily married man is one who enjoys good sex with his wife, an advanced soul is one who leaves sex to pursue the path of God.

All souls want to be advanced as soul advancement leads to greater degrees of happiness. However, ignoring the physical body and its needs like food, water or sex may not be harmonious with the path of soul advancement.
Conquering physical desires is necessary so that we do not crave for them and become negative. But, meeting basic physical needs is necessary also to attain a balance between the spiritual body and the physical body.

IF we negate the physical body in the path of soul evolution, we may become more negative, cynical and angry than positive. We may become saint like but we may lose patience with the general public and hence spread more negativity than positive energy.
On the other hand, if we indulge in free sex, we become like animals. That also devolves us and makes us angry, bitter and sarcastic. We transfer energies to each other through sex and the fears of the person who we have sex with gets transferred to us whenever we have sex with that person. Sex with people we do not love is harmful, as we pick up energies of random people.

The soul in a human body is a mix between God and man.
The God part of the soul is the free spirit. We are free spirits before we are born in a human body.
In the spirit body also, we experience love, sex, friendship, learning and compassion. There is no competition between spirits as there is no threat of survival.  The spirit is not bound by any physical constraints. Spirits live in heaven as freely as we live on Earth. They have normal activities like schooling, entertainment, sports, research, healing, hospitals, karmic record keeping etc.

 In the spirit body, we can have free sex with anybody whose energies feel as positive as our own. There is no sense of commitment, responsibility or worry of having children. The spirit body has no physical bodies like food, clothing or shelter and hence the man and woman souls do not have allotted roles of responsibility sharing.

Spirit sex creates feelings of joy in the partners. There is a merging of energies which is far more intense than in the physical body because the spirit body is more fluid. The two souls love freely and can surrender to each other as water merging with a river.

The animal part of human body is the pure physical body. This pure physical body understands only basic feelings and nothing complicated. People who have free sex like animals do are young souls. They have superficial sex and do not experience intense satisfaction. Sex is like eating food for them and they just vent out anger or frustration as in a boxing game. These souls evolve when they experience love and good sex.
Love creates intense passion and an increase in soul frequencies. When people have sex with love, they form an emotional and physical bonding. The soul evolves only when the emotional aspect gets connected to the physical aspect, when the animal needs become God like needs. When the Gods have sex, they exchange love, positivity, harmony, passion and oneness.

When animals have sex, they do not merge in each other’s energies. It is like steel banging steel . There is no emotional mingling of souls.
Advanced souls prefer to stay away from animal sex. That is because animal sex is fruitless for the advanced souls.
In the olden days, when there was mainly animal like sex, souls were advised to stay away from sex than become animal like.
However, with evolution, women also started becoming as advanced as men. Several advanced souls incarnated as women. The souls who feel in love could experience high degrees of soul evolution with sex which made them complete.

Hence, sex did not block soul evolution but helped it. In fact, saints who had to leave sex to evolve became rapists and killers in next life to vent out the suppressed emotions.
Sex is a blessing if we can receive love and give love. When the emotional and physical bonding is complete, sex helps sin soul advancement as it leads to positive feelings.

However, when there is no love exchange of any kind like in paid sex   or traditional sex for children, sex is harmful. The soul which indulges in sex without love is likely to become an animal again in the next life.

Sex is a sin if it is animal like and a blessing if it is God like. When the exchange is physical, there is a sin as it makes both souls unhappier. When there is love and contentment exchanged, sex becomes a blessing as positive joy is created for both souls.










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