Tuesday, 15 October 2013

DRUGS, CIGARETTES, ALCOHOL, DANCING, MUSIC - VIBRATORY ANTI DEPRESSANTS BACK FIRE




The ever increasing restlessness in societies, the rise in domestic violence, criminal tendencies, alcohol and drug addictions, medical bills and incurable diseases , prove that escaping the needs of soul evolution does not help. But, we are conditioned into believing that the soul does not exist, and that only earning money, fame or power matters in creating happiness.

So many people are addicted to drugs, smoking, liquor and other oral sensory pleasures for relaxing their minds.
Though these addictions temporarily relax the person, they have serious side effects on health, heart and body.  These addictions help to stop negative thinking for some time, but the negative thoughts, fears and doubts come back with a greater force and trouble the person.

Dancing and singing also help the person relax.  They motivate the body and mind to align with sense organs and stop negative thinking for some time. They have an addictive influence though with less side effects. However, even these cannot be a substitute for positive thinking.

It is very necessary to relax the mind to remain healthy. If a person cannot get free from his worries, negative thinking is very harmful for the health of the person. Addictions are a life line for some people who don’t see any other way out to relax.
However, addictions would not be as necessary if we do not feel pressurized by other’s opinions. When we know that parents, teachers or people in authority are not right always, we would not need to take drugs to escape from them.

Drugs or liquor help us escape but do not solve the problems. But if we understand that God is not against us, that our fee will is important, that we do not have to be performing computers to succeed; then we would not need to take drugs to relax.
We can visualize the same way as drugs facilitate during sleeping. WE can take time off and inhale- exhale than smoke. It appears odd if we close our eyes and relax in public places but it may be healthier than smoking in public. We can imagine flying in the skies and making love in our imagination, to feel free of negative thinking.  All these focused imaginations are part of meditation to be one with God.
God is force of love and God is always present whenever we love, fly freely in our mind, smell flowers in imagination, sit in beautiful gardens and feel pace. It is more relaxing than taking drugs or liquor to be alone and imagine being where we want to be for some time during the day. We do not need to interact and talk all the time to relax.
Relaxation comes by feeling the love of god in our mind by imagining fulfillment, orgasmic release, heights of pleasure without any external source facilitating it.
We can use traffic jams to practice mediation and visualization. Instead of watching Television, we can make films in our own mind. The more we activate our sense organs for visualization and day dreaming, the more we will release positive hormones in the body. Our stress and anxiety would go away if we can take time off from our busy schedule for day dreaming and laughing as an exercise of mind control.

Being thoughtless,  dancing or singing are better ways to relax than using drugs ir alcohol. However, if we use dancing or singing, you should not resort to drugs later to balance hormones. You should meditate by inhaling exhaling with focus, after dancing and singing so that your mind cools down from heightened activity and you can balance normal routine.

 Imagining yourself in perfectly clear white light, dissolving in the brightness as formless after a rigorous activity, and radiating light from your stomach as a SUN in your centre would radiate -  helps the body completely reschedule itself and recharge for feelings of newness of  life. Health and vibratory sensations improve by releasing positive hormones through feeling happy mentally, in reality or imagination. 
        
As is given in the book CREATION OF HAPPINESS: the energy war, a soul’s perspective:

  

Addictions, from the perspective of the soul

             People who are unaware of the merits of remaining thoughtless as a simple routine mind-control exercise may seek to break the flow of negative thoughts through external addictions.
            Addictions like smoking, drugs, alcohol and over-eating are a person's escape route to stop thinking. By keeping the mouth occupied, people try to control an agitated, restless brain activity for some time.

External addictions help to shift focus from stress, anxiety or depression. They are a way of reducing negative thinking. Addictions of the body help in loosening the mind’s addiction of negative thinking.
            The person feels an urge to indulge in addictions from the subconscious level because the subconscious mind wants to prevent the person from thinking negatively in any possible way. Negative thinking releases negative hormones in the body. The positive intention of the subconscious mind behind making the person indulge in addictions is to reduce the flow of negative hormones which harm the body’s functioning.
            By indulging in oral pleasures, the person seeks to break the flow of negative current to the mind which stops the release of negative hormones in the body. That helps the person temporarily as the body is not working in an anxiety mode all the time.
            When the person feels non-negative while smoking or drinking by forgetting his problems, even if it is only for short spans, the breathing is normal at that time, and the body can regain its balance.

            However, negative addictions like smoking or drugs do not help for long, because they themselves release negative hormones in the body. In the initial stages, when the addiction is regulated, the release of negative hormones is less.  A mild addiction may help to break the existing negative energy circuits in the body, created by a continuous release of stress hormones.

            But, overtime, the pull of such addictions as that of worrying and negative thinking causes the person to start indulging in more external addictive behaviors to avoid worrying.
            As the person allows himself to indulge more in addictive behaviors, these addictions become stronger. In case of strong addictions, the release of negative hormones is high. With an even greater release of negative hormones in the body than that caused by negative thinking, the addictions are no longer useful in helping the body regain its normal balance. They cause more problems than relief. With external addictions, the person's health becomes worse than it was.
           
            On the other hand, meditation or maintaining thoughtless states has no such side-effects. When the person stops negative thinking for intervals by indulging in meditation or physical exercise, they help him in calming down more than the oral addictions.

            Therefore, though in comparison to smoking and drinking, regular meditation or yoga require intense mind-control in the initial stages and are slower in providing relief to an anxious mind yet, they are more effective in lowering anxiety and restoring the body's normal balance over the long run.
           
            External addictions like smoking, drinking, over-eating or drugs give the person an illusion of being in control. They make the person feel temporarily powerful. But meditation and remaining connected to one’s inner self make the person inherently powerful.
            In either case, the feeling of being in control and in power comes from a disassociation with the body and an association with an alternate state of being, viz., with our soul.
           
            It is the feeling of happiness or euphoria which gives us a feeling of power, whether it is temporarily achieved through a drug, or innately achieved by realizing our soul self. Indulging in day dreaming or staying thoughtless also help us get into exalted feelings of euphoria, where we feel ourselves as floating energies which are not bound by constraints of the body or form. It is when we feel ourselves as energies without form that we literally connect to our life force, which is essentially a strong current of positive soul force.
           
            We can train our mind to disconnect from the world and its problems for a few moments through learning how to be in contact with our soul on a routine basis. That would help us become subconsciously aware of the whole illusion of reality and the futility of remaining in worry. Realizing ourselves as souls would help us feel at peace again and remind us that, in essence, nothing matters except being happy.
           
            The extent of external addictions our society indulges in shows the extent of craving we have for finding our soul self and for attaining happiness even if it is only for a few moments. Instinctively, we realize that we are on Earth to raise our soul frequencies and evolve to higher dimensions. Soul frequencies can be raised only when we are feeling happy or positive. If we can be high on happiness, we would not need drugs to get high.
                      
            It is because of lack of training in using the laws of creation that we have to use harmful addictions to feel high as souls. We can be taught the process of creation in schools but we are so heavily trained in using correct grammar or concepts of biology, that we do not have time for receiving the education needed to activate our creative soul energies. We study to achieve happiness in our lives, but, unfortunately, our training is such that it helps us achieve success but causes us to miss out on the very happiness which that success is supposed to lead to.
           
            The lack of methodical training in our education systems needed for achieving our soul purpose could be largely responsible for the stress we face in our adult lives. Maybe, if Laws of Creation were taught in schools we would not need to resort to drugs or smoking to feel in control or powerful or remain positive in our minds.
          
The key to getting rid of rampant drug abuse, external addictions or bad physical health finally lies in training our minds to handle negative feelings without worrying about them or suppressing them. Overcoming the negative and manifesting happiness for ourselves is the only way to learn soul lessons and help our soul breathe freely in the physical body.
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Sunday, 13 October 2013

PUPPETS UNDER A CROWN

I dance for good, I sing for peace,
I live like a free bird where I am at ease
I learn my lessons, overcome my challenges
I am happy as i grow into a higher dimension of peace

I dance for fame, I sing for money,
I become a puppet to what other people demand of me
my truth is lost to please another's minds
Their happiness is destroyed as they let short cuts rule their lives


People on Earth seem to think than name and fame brings peace of mind. But, from the soul’s perspective, it is the opposite.

When you are in a position of power, you are famous. All your activities are scrutinized by the public media. People love to read about your personal life. Everything is gossip. You are not allowed to have normal human weaknesses. You have to hide to be your own self because you are otherwise, always living up to an image.

You own soul self becomes completely sacrificed in order to meet expectations of others. As a woman in public, you cannot speak what you want because your husband’s or family’s reputation gets harmed. As a man, you have to obey certain decorum and you cannot rebel against injustice even if you want to.
If you speak against the monopolies, the dark forces blackmail you. They threaten you with death penalties. They make you obey them like slaves and you have to do it because you are popular.
You have no life of your own. You only live to please the masses.

Usually, you hardly are a leader or a role model. You are a popular puppet who has to be very careful not to hurt anyone’s sentiments. So, even if there is filth around you and there are famous people cheating and exploiting the weaker sections, you have to seal your mouth and be quiet. Such a life can be suffocating for the soul who seeks truth to open up.

As a soul, I am one with others who have departed. I catch thoughts of spirits who have lived lives like those of Cleopatra , Jhansi ki Rani or Marilyn Monroe and in all those lives I lost the war. The war was lost because the cause was unjust. It was a cause to protect those who were weak but negative. The people who the famous tried to protect wanted a leader to save them from oppression. But they were not willing to let go of the hypocracy in their own lives. Rome spent huge amounts on sports and hardly anything on temples or education, in comparison. Heath and soul evolution were neglected because money came from sports and wars.

Happiness cannot come by supporting one negative system over another.
A king who fights war against another country cannot save his own people from cheats inside the country who give him money to fight the war. In the spiritual sense, there is very little difference between a  king and a mafia don. Both become puppets of a crown.

 A  man becomes a mafia don to fight against injustice done to himself but he becomes negative himself later. To maintain his position and clout, he has to start being unjust to people himself. The soul he tried to protect becomes sacrificed as he becomes a slave to money.

The souls who have lived lives of fame but felt like puppets under a crown , choose to prefer anonymity than success which makes them exposed to the public. It is better to live in peace alone then be a powerful figure in the public but have no real soul power.

Every aspect of your life comes under a ring of challenges. If you want to change your profession, you cannot because the public expects a certain performance from you. When you are alone and want to divorce a spouse, you have ten people to answer. When you are a public figure, you have  a thousand people to answer. Some souls develop phobia of being amongst people, some commit suicide, other e become alcoholics or drug addicts.

The public takes so much energy out of you that you feel emptied like a kettle from water. You are sucked out of your life force and you carve for pace.  But you are so addicted to attention and adulation that you can’t live without it also.

Your own self worth becomes a matter of judgment by others than by your own soul. You start writing, for popular selling, you make films for popular demand and  you sell your soul for money. But the money doesn’t bring in peace that you wanted in the first place by name and fame.

Soul happiness comes when you can expand your inner consciousness, do work you like to do on your own terms, take time off as you desire, can divorce or marry without fear and can live a clean life, free from alcoholism or drugs. The soul feels free when it is not dependent on anything external for its happiness, where it is in complete control and power.


For the soul, life is an expression of its inner desires for happiness, love and peace. To be happy or healthy,  It is not as  important whether you are famous or rich , as being able to live freely by your own rules in alignment with Truth, wisdom and God's thinking. The soul evolves by being one with the consciousness of happiness radiated by the Creator, not by scoring runs or winning wars.. 

Saturday, 12 October 2013

TO LOVE IS TO BE ALIVE , HEALTHY AND OPTIMISTIC



God is love, God is life
To love is to live… to be successful mechanically like a computer is to die ,
for to be happy we need love and success in tune with passions soaring God's dances in the skies

It is scientifically established that love creates hormone sin the mind in the same way as drug addictions do . Love is an addiction.


If you get used to being in love, you want to continue being in love even if the person keeps changing. If you get reciprocation as you desire, love continues for the same person. But, if there are too many thinking differences, and love gets rejected ; than your body and circumstances seek to change the person so that the addiction can continue.

However, love is an addiction which releases positive hormones in the body unlike cocaine etc.

Love and happiness are energy vibrations of high dimensions of existence.

The universe is divided into seven dimensions. The Creator or God is said to exist in the seventh dimension. Earth exists in the second - third dimension. As changes in consciousness happen and astronomical changes take place, Earth moves up to higher dimensions.

In the New Age, Earth will  move up to fourth – fifth dimensions. As Earth moves up , it means that the energies of Earth will shift to becoming more positive. The plant will move at a  faster speed of vibration. Energies all be cleaner and thoughts will be clearer. Love and compassion  are expected to replace fear and competition as the driving forces of survival on Earth.

Complementing each other’s skills will become more important than competing. The only way to remove negativity from thoughts is to curb negative competition.

If human beings continue to be negative, there would be large scale destruction on the planet as there would be an imbalance between the frequency of thoughts of humans and Earth. Earth would move up on the universe path,  like a speeding car and all those humans who continue to be negative, will fall off the planet like dust falling off the car. Negative people are slow thinkers and would not be able to match the sped of thinking needed to move in tune with Earth’s changes.

The moving up of Earth on the dimensional scale will increase happiness in life. Human beings will try to change their thinking to positive to be able to survive on the planet. If they cannot be positive, they will die of diseases, wars, floods or epidemics. Human souls  seek to move closer to the Creator to find happiness in life.
Love is an energy which makes people positive. People in love feel optimistic, content and passionately alive. Therefore, as we improve our abilities to give and receive love, we would move our thinking in tune with the changing speed of the  planet.

Being able to love and receive love requires breaking down of all traditional structures of life , which prevent us from loving. We have to remove several beliefs which make us focus on competition over love. However, the sooner we can chang our inner frequency to positive, the happier we become.

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Human souls are made of different soul energy frequencies. It is easier to move a table of wood than a table of stone.
 Similarly, human beings who have more advanced souls can sooner destroy rigid beliefs of life and adapt to new roles in all aspects of life involving relationships , health, peace, education and happiness. Human beings who do not understand soul advancement are less evolved, animal like souls who need physical evidence to judge any energy movement.
Less evolved souls cannot create by thought and hence are slow thinkers. These souls would face increasing problems as the Speed of Earth rises in the universal vibrational plan. The more easile we can love, with pure intentions to be complete, the clearer our energies will be . Happiness will rise as we clear our energies.


Friday, 11 October 2013

THE MIND OF A KILLER






There are several people who make  a living by killing others in our world. It is s ad that people have to kill to eat themselves.

However, it is the customs and conditioning of our societies which make criminals. Babies are nit born killers. They are made .
Usually, a child who kills comes from a family background which has been violent in some way. The father is excessively abusive to the mother, physically or emotionally. The mother feels suppressed but does not rebel as s h should. Te father remains in authority as he misuse his power. The child grows up thinking that it helps to misuse power and curb others to be respected.
A person who kills  a s a criminal or a soldier becomes dis-associated with his emotional side. That makes the person feel machine like , aggressive and lonely. The person cannot connect to his feelings as he has to suppress his feelings to kill another.

At soul level, all beings are connected. The soul is an energy. The body makes us feel we are separate from one another but at a subconscious level, we are all connected through energies. The soul does not feel a body.
The soldier or  criminal kills the body thinking he is separate but that does not kill the soul of the other person. The soul is eternal. Usually, the body of the person killed gets attached to the soul of the criminal when it loses its own body. When you have soul attachments, it means that the other person’s thoughts overtake you at random.
So, if you have killed someone and that person’s soul gets attached t you, you start thinking like that person. That person may be hating you at the moment of death when you killed him . So, you would find that you hate yourself for no visible reason.


Killing another may appear powerful on the surface but it makes us feel more negative and helpless at the soul level. The spirits of the dead travel and create negativity at the subconscious level, which we cannot stop. These spirit attachments last over life times, till we become so positive that a negative spirit cannot remain in our aura. That is possible only through a complete reversal of thought process from negative to positive.

Usually, souls who are killers become saint like in later years or next lives, when they calm down. That is because meditation is the only way to remove negative spirits from our body.

The following is an excerpt from the book IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS, How past lives affect the present ,  a soul’s perspective :
The book is on past lives and it covers nine lives of the hero. The name of the hero is DEV in the book. In most of his life. Dev sees himself killing for earning his livelihood – be it as a soldier or a s a criminal. In each life, we do a past life regression and then ask his soul what drove him to choose that profession.

Dev is made to connect with his spirit guide who he sees as an OLD MAN in heaven. The spirit guide explains to Dev why he took some actions and how can he heal himself from the karmic debt. HAPpiness and peace can come in Dev’s present life only when he creates positive energy in place of the negative energy committed by his sins or mistakes, as they are called in heaven .
Dev is extremely anxiety prone and his heart races very fast when he feels excited. Usually, exercises like dumb- bells where he feels powerful make him feel excited as he used to be a powerful soldier in his past lives. However , the same exercises make him anxiety prone as the soul associates power with unnecessary bloodshed. In one of the sessions, he sees himself as an assassin. He is told by his spirit guide, THE OLD MAN , that he was like a lion hunting.

CHAPTER 16 – THE MIND OF A KILLER –
Section 4 - Dev’s Soul’s Perspective
The Old Man compared the soul of a killer to lion hunting. He meant that the soul of the killer becomes so small that it is like an animal’s soul, without a human conscience.

The comparison was particularly apt in Dev’s case because since nine lives Dev had been killing to earn his bread. In seven lives he was a soldier, and in two lives he was a criminal. 
Just like a lion has to kill to eat, as the soldier and assassin , Dev had to kill to eat. His survival depended on another’s death, as in all his previous lives, he literally earned money and rewards when another person died.
 Since he was in professions where he had to kill on order, he may have trained his mind to suppress his compassionate reasoning skills. It is possible that due to the demands of these professions, he lost empathy for other human lives.

Had he actually killed in his present life, he would have been punished. But, punishment could not have healed him because for punishment to work, the victim has to understand what he is being punished for. Dev only obeyed orders in his previous lives. He did not allow his intellect to grow enough to understand cause and effect because he did not want to question authority. In all his past lives, he was conditioned into believing that killing is justified. 
If he was now told, that killing is not justified and been punished he may have blamed the punishers instead of realizing his own mistake - as most criminals do.
 Like Dev developed emotional blindness due to training his mind to suppress questions, it is probable that a psychopath or a serial killer does not understand cause and effect because in his childhood and previous lives he has been trained to just obey and not question.

It is tragic that in our society, such professions flourish where killing other souls becomes a necessity for one’s own success.
Subsequently, when we try to heal our society by means such as capital punishment, it does not help in removing the poison from the root causes as capital punishment can destroy the body, not the soul.
The soul does not die by being hanged or electrocuted. It may become even more negative at feeling non-understood at the point of death.
If the soul dies feeling negative, it keeps coming back life after life and causes more destruction than before.
Such a soul needs Positive Reinforcement therapy, than physical punishment. It needs to be taught how to find satisfaction for using methods other than killing to earn his livelihood. If he can find better means to gain power which give him much more emotional satisfaction, than killing can, he would be induced to pursue those means from within.

Realization of cause and effect has to come from one’s own mind. It cannot be super imposed by preaching or punishment. When the soul realizes that killing another soul harms his own happiness, he would understand the futility of it. A thought virus cannot be demolished by external force. It has to be transformed.

Dev’s Higher Self was trying to show him the futility of using violence as a means of gaining power. This emotional training which his spiritual guides had to intervene to give, needs to be a part of our educational development curriculum on Earth; so that children do not desperately resort to violence to defend themselves from verbal or physical abuse. The seed of the thought virus which creates killers needs to be noticed and eradicated before it can infect.


Wednesday, 9 October 2013

DIABETES, ASTHMA – how feeling negative creates diseases






 Our subconscious mind is eight-nine times more powerful than the conscious mind.
It controls our autonomic nervous system and maintains the normal functioning of all organs of our body. For example, it maintains our body temperature, our heart beat, repairs damaged tissues etc.
 When our body organs start malfunctioning, as in diseases, pains and aches, the subconscious mind is responsible for the problems. Problems are created in the body subconsciously by us, due to an excessive focus on some negative aspects of life. The problems in our physical body are a physical manifestation of a negative emotional state of mind.

For example, diabetes occurs when a person feels wronged by his/her environment. Feelings of guilt, self reproach and disappointment continue over a prolonged period of time before physical symptoms develop. The person typically feels frustrated as after a rigorous, unrewarding routine and has a deep desire to rest which she ignores. A feeling of exhaustion comes due to a constant emotional conflict between balancing different aspects of life. Body symptoms are created such that the life-force energy stops flowing adequately to all organs of the body since the person feels she is not doing justice to all aspects of his/her life  .
 During regression therapy, diabetics are always found to have some secret guilt which keeps nagging their minds. They are unable to release their self blame tendency even though they remain tense because of it. Because of the resistance to let go, the physical organ responsible for release viz. the kidney gets affected. The release of insulin reduces since the person is always holding back stress, in some form. 
The person eats in an undisciplined manner out of a need for comfort but feels worse because the digestive system cannot take the strain due to deficiency of insulin.

In cure of diabetes, disciplined eating helps because it makes the person feel in some manner emotionally strong, and reduces the tendency of self blame, while releasing the burden on the digestive system. Taking regular rests also helps in reducing the stress of negative thinking. But, if the person takes no care to discipline himself and keeps brooding while doing his regular chores, the body feels neglected, as does the soul self .Negative thinking keep blocking the flow of positive hormones and reinforcing the physical symptoms of deficiency in the body.

            The Law of Repetition is the basic operative mechanism which ensures that once a cycle is established for the soul, it is maintained and reinforced. The cycles break only when the internal frequency of our energy flow, changes.
            This can happen due to an internal process of maturation and evolution, or due to external events which shake our internal frequency balance due to their strong impact on the overall energy flow. .
                        Similarly, at a subconscious level, asthma can be cured by releasing feelings of being suffocated mentally.
Asthma is a result of constantly feeling emotionally suffocated and mentally unable to cope up with negative pressure.

            For instance, a thought like “I cannot express myself. I feel angry, suffocated and helpless ‘, when focused on repeatedly, leads to a creation of a complex physical disease, like asthma, where the person feels breathless and choked over sustained periods.
            The feeling of mental suffocation, converts into physical suffocation due to consistent focus.
            Typically, the asthmatic person feels it is inappropriate to express his anger or resentment externally, and hence, internalizes the feelings. When the anger or sadness become too intense, but the person continues to stop his energy from freely expressing, she feels mentally choked.

             The negative energy released by a repeated attention on feeling bound by convention leads to a release of negative hormones to the throat and lungs, as these are organs responsible for free breathing and expression   .As a result, a repeated focus on feeling mentally suppressed manifests into feeling physically breathless.

            The person feels choked / chained in her body and her life situation. Falling sick offers temporary escape or relief as the person becomes thoughtless at the time of being sick. But, due to repeatedly recurring negative focus, the asthma keeps coming back.
            During regression therapy, asthma gets cured by viewing lives where the person died of drowning, poisoning or feeling choked. When the person realizes that she or he feels similarly threatened emotionally in the present life, she can change her pattern of thinking to free herself. Asthma requires that the person becomes emotionally wiser and immune to negative forces. A screaming parent or spouse can easily trigger asthma in a docile person as the person feels as if he will drown in the pressure of criticism. IT is only through breaking the chains of thought that the person can get cured of asthma.


Other diseases are also a physical manifestation of a specific negative thought process. Illustrated briefly – eczema comes when we have some issue of life constantly irritating us but we are unable to resolve it positively; cancer is caused due to suppressed bitterness which causes uncontrollable fits of rage wherein the lack of control leads to uncontrollable growth of negative cancer cells, arthritis involves rigidity of joints, movement is blocked due to  autocratic , inflexible thinking and a feeling that one is unable to move ahead in life as desired; throat problems reflect an inability to  communicate etc.



SUCCESS vs HAPPINESS

A happy person always feels successful but a  successful person does not always feel happy.

There has been an eternal underlined debate between success and happiness. While The Gods we worship have always preached happiness for the soul, our history focuses on wars, unhappiness, bloodshed and negativity, in a pursuit of success.

Happiness  leads to feeling successful , as the soul is happy when it succeeds in feeling positive. But, a pursuit of success without focusing on being happy, leads to disillusionment and disease for the body and mind.
 
Success does not automatically lead to happiness. Your getting good grades in school or a high salary as adults does not ensure a peaceful, happy life, a healthy body, love or sexual satisfaction. Pursuing success is meaningless for the soul if you do not understand your soul lessons.
 
The soul incarnates in a human body to evolve in the physical dimension. To evolve, it has to rise to a higher positive energy frequency than it was before it entered the physical body. To become more positive, the soul has to realize happiness in its life on Earth. Only by feeling happy can the soul rise to feeling more positive. Happiness can be experienced in several ways but all roads to being more positive need to be pursued by overcoming negative emotions. Success can be a part of happiness but it is only one of the ingredients of being happy.
 
Success can also come by feeling negative more than positive. Hence, success, by itself, is not a measure of being positive. If a highly successful person is more negative than positive, then his soul devolves than evolve. Such a person becomes unhealthy, mentally stressed, anxious, diseased and negative in temperament. A life where the soul becomes more negative than positive is a waste of a life-time for the soul, as all its energies get wasted in achieving conventional success on Earth without feeling happy from within.
 
The soul which dies feeling helpless, diseased or betrayed, as is seen in past life therapy, feels unsuccessful at the point of death. It has to repeat a life with similar obstacles to be able to raise its soul frequency to positive again such that it ends its life with feeling powerful as a soul seeking positive peace, successful in terms of feeling in control, happy and stress free. A soul purpose is achieved when the soul can realize its dreams of inner happiness through its choices on Earth.
 
As is written in the book: CREATION OF HAPPINESS: THE ENERGY WAR, a soul’s perspective

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"Our traditional role models have been war heroes who killed others to survive themselves. It may be noted here that on a practical plane, our role models are not our Gods. That is because we worship Gods but we do not try to be them. We place Gods on a pedestal of superiority, miracles and sacrifice and we ask them for blessings and gifts; while we try to be like our mortal war heroes who acquired fame, power and money in their competitive pursuits.

But, there is no account of whether these warriors became happier by appropriating greater wealth or fame in external terms. Or whether the wars they fought helped people become more emotionally equipped to fight their internal traumas and evolve as souls?
The money which came from wars was usually used in fighting more wars, than in upliftment of human consciousness towards better management of survival needs.
Emotional betterment was left to chance as we looked for happiness outside the mind.  Is it possible to be unhappy, sad or craving for love within and find happiness outside by eating or drinking? Can just pleasing the body make us happy when we are life-force creative particles in our essence?  If being animal like was satisfying, why would we need to evolve towards creating happiness, as souls in a physical experience?

The ever increasing restlessness in societies, the rise in domestic violence, criminal tendencies, alcohol and drug addictions, medical bills and incurable diseases , prove that escaping the needs of soul evolution does not help. But we are conditioned into believing that the soul does not exist and that only earning money, fame or power matters in creating happiness.
Charles Darwin proposed the theory of Survival of the fittest for animals but human beings still operate on that principle by habit, because they feel they have to win by being above others in terms of money which essentially represents food and shelter.
The unconscious insecurity continues from the animal mind that for one to live, another has to die – be it physically, financially or emotionally. That is the basis of competitive thinking.

Yet, being competitive has not led the human race towards higher levels of happiness, peace or ethereal positivity. To be happy from within as souls, we need to discover our humaneness as distinct from our animal instincts.

Hence, we probably need to change the definitions of success which we glorify as part of our mental conditioning from childhood. Because of social pressures, we train ourselves to compete with others, to be what everyone else is and that whole mind-set makes us compromise on our needs of soul evolution.
At an internal level, there are pangs of having failed even when we feel externally successful because we fail to achieve that happiness, which we incarnate to achieve as souls.

Changing our core thinking to positive is not easy because we become habitual to sacrificing our soul needs to be happy , presuming happiness to be a compromise as defined by traditional doctrines. Yet each time we compromise because of fear of not having in the future, we focus on the negative aspects of life.

Initially redirecting our thinking feels like relearning the alphabet .But at some point, we need to realize that we cannot continue with the negative ways of thinking simply because we are conditioned into them! Our method of coping up has not helped us since centuries of trial and error in finding the happiness we seek through our efforts.
That we have achieved a state of balance being the way we are, does not mean that we are in an optimum state of balance. Since we feel more helpless, anxious and sick than healthy, happy and at peace on an average, it means that we are balancing ourselves in a non-optimal, negative state of being.

Generally, it is owing to beliefs embedded in mass consciousness and stored in the subconscious levels of our minds that we tend to get misdirected. These beliefs overrule our individual sensibilities about what constitutes happiness.

This book aims to spread the soul’s concept of happiness by facilitating an understanding about what happiness means for each soul self, as contrasted with traditionally held mass beliefs of what happiness should mean.
By making attempts to know that which specifically resonates with our individual sensibilities, and contrasting it with the values conventional thinking and mass culture hold to be true, we arrive at the dynamics of an underlying internal language influencing our perceptions and expectations as contrasted with an externally imposed language.
The intention is to develop awareness of the inner workings of the soul mind so that it can help us remain positively expectant through the ups and downs of life." ...................................excerpt... chapter 1
 

By pursuing success, as generally defined by society, we cannot find happiness. Everything that we do in life is to be happy, finally, be it getting god grades in class or earning good money as adults or becoming powerful and famous. But, if we do not realize happiness with our efforts, it means that our methods of attaining happiness are mis-directed.
We allow a negative mass consciousness to influence our decisions than develop our own ability as co-creators of the universe. We need to be taught in schools how to create the life we desire by controlling our thinking rather than by learning by rote what other people have thought. The need is more to develop an understanding of cause and effect relationships between the way we feel on a day to day basis and the way our life unfolds.

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“The Law of Creation states that whichever feeling the soul focuses upon mentally, it mobilizes energy to create the same feeling at the level of physical experience.
The Law, essentially, illustrates the theory of cause and effect in the process of creation. As seeds grow to bear flowers, thoughts grow to create reality.” – Excerpt chapter 7 -
CREATION OF HAPPINESS: THE ENERGY WAR, a soul’s perspective
http://www.scribd.com/doc/106783843/Creation-of-H appiness-The-Energy-War

Everything that we feel manifests in our life in increasing gradation. Al our experiences manifest such that the energies we feel today become stronger in the future. So, if we feel negative today, we feel more negative in the future whereas if we feel positive today, we feel happier on the future. The soul, our Higher Self or God are all ENERGY BEINGS and they only perceive energy exchanges or karmic exchanges.
Our soul does not recognize the physical, external reality, right or wrong definitions of social ethics or the pretense of fake happiness as it only reads how we feel within. Only our intentions behind actions are recorded at the karmic level and happiness comes when our intentions are positive. If we feel negative for creating a positive image, the negativity is our reality for the soul, not the image we offer to the world. The energy we radiate spreads into mass consciousness & influences others as well, more than our actions. This is the subtle, underlying truth of reality which we need to understand to be happy, healthy and peaceful in life.

As is given in the book IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS:

The Purpose of a Life on Earth
In each life on Earth, we, as souls, plan to achieve a specific purpose. The purpose of life involves focusing energies on creating a particular kind of physical reality, which would help us attain happiness in that life.
Different souls have different life purposes and they are born with a skill set necessary to attain that purpose. For example, one person may have a desire to be a dancer while another may desire to be an engineer. In the process of the pursuit of these desires, the soul moves towards attaining its life purpose.
To attain this purpose, we make a life-plan, at the soul level before incarnating on Earth. All the steps on this plan are designed to lead us to attaining the level of emotional training required to achieve the life purpose.
The steps are coded at an energy level and they keep motivating us to pursue certain instincts over others. Through successfully making choices which help us feel happy/positive from within while manifesting our external desires; we can evolve to achieving our life purpose. The path towards achieving the life purpose is difficult but is accompanied with a high quality of emotional satisfaction.

Since the soul is a unit of life force energy, it understands its reality in energy terms and not in physical or tangible terms.
From our soul’s perspective, the praise, money, respect, success or power we seek to gain through our efforts on Earth, are emotional experiences. The soul feels positive or negative through these external experiences but does not perceive them directly, physically. It only reads these external aspects of life from an internal emotional scale.

The individual life purpose, therefore, is a unique emotional experience that the soul seeks to accomplish during that specific journey on Earth.  For an individual, incarnating, little soul, this purpose is the main reason for being born.

This individual purpose is also connected to a purpose for the world, i.e., for the planet Earth, as a whole.
In other words, when the soul seeks to raise its individual energy frequency to positive during the process of evolution on Earth, it also has to ensure that the planet’s energies also become more positive, through the work it does. 

Negative energies, which come in the form of negative emotions such as fear or doubt, act as obstacles in achieving happiness while pursuing the soul’s purpose of life.
These fears and doubts aim to divert the soul away from the life purpose into a meaningless pursuit of success or power which cannot lead to any feelings of emotional peace or happiness for the soul.
For example, in the case-history given, you would read that the soul’s main purpose of incarnation was to experience becoming powerful for helping the weak and oppressed achieve justice.
We find that the soul repeatedly becomes powerful, over life-times, but fails to use that power to achieve justice for the weak and oppressed. To establish justice, the soul has to overcome the pull of negative energies like greed, selfishness, anger, revenge, impatience, helplessness, starvation etc. which prevent him from spreading justice for the weak. --- Excerpt from Chapter 1—Basic Concepts of soul evolution


  
Happine ss necessitates that we break the definitions of success traditionally conditioned into us, which make us more helpless than peaceful with the choices we make in life. We need to pursue success to be happy and happiness can come in only when we can overcome our negative feelings through emotional management.

As souls, we are co-creators, part of The Creator. Literally, we come on Earth to manifest our dreams of happiness, as defoned by the soul..We need to pursue our desires to be happy but we need to redefine desires such that they lead us to feeling happy within ourselves and not have desires defined by others. We cannot be happy if our goal is only to prove our self worth to a world which is dominated by a negative mass consciousness as a focus on the negative will only create more sadness in our life, overtime,. Our soul seeks to evolve consciousness so that we evolve to a happier way of being. The more we can clean our energy and learn to be happy, success will follow in ways that our inner happiness multiplies. The techniques by which we can release our negative thinking and pursue a self healing road to happiness are given in the book
REDEFINING HAPPINESS: how to handle negative feelings, a soul's perspective
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Are You Positive or Externally Good?

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