To move from being sad to being happy, it is necessary to dis-organize a previous negatively established life-balance and reset the mind tuning to update new beliefs about what success should mean such that it improves health, peace and positivity in everyday life.
This book is an excerpt from my book - A Course in Emotional Management
Learn How to Control your SWITCH
Each intense emotional situation
triggers on a SWITCH in your subconscious mind which rekindles all previous
experiences of the same emotion. For
example, each time you feel abused, the energy of hurt gets stored in the
subconscious mind as a negative emotional memory and reduces positive energy of
the body. Subsequently, whenever you
encounter abuse, all previous memories of being hurt would awaken and impact
your overall level of sadness. Similarly, each time you feel happy or
encouraged, all previous memories of being loved awaken. Feeling loved makes
you optimistic; the emotional memory of a positive vibration gets stored in the
subconscious mind and improves your feelings of well-being.
Your SWITCH of feeling happy or sad is in your own
control, as much as your feelings are in your own control.
You can
choose to focus on good aspects of your life and feel good to create positive
vibrations, by learning to control your self-talk and feelings with patience.
If you
tell yourself “Life is good”, with belief, repeatedly, the energy
vibration of the emotions improves your health as feeing good releases positive
hormones in the body. Each time you tell ourselves ‘Life is bad’, you
feel more sick and depressed. As explained in detail in my book ‘How to Be
Happy in Difficulties ‘, there are energy circuits or neuron-pathways,
running in the mind carrying energies of the dominant feelings we focus on.
Any
event which has a strong emotional impact becomes a dominant feeling. This feeling acts as a point of internal
dominant focus (IDF) and starts forming an energy circuit around itself wherein
it keeps repeating itself again and again. After some time, this energy circuit may get
suppressed, as your point of dominant focus shifts to another event.
However,
a strong emotional experience releases greater negativity and gets imprinted in
the subconscious mind, more deeply. This suppressed negative energy reserve
gets awakened each time, a similar emotional experience occurs even when the
new emotional experience is much milder in intensity than the original one.
This negative energy circuit which got strongly imprinted, remains in the mind
and keeps attracting energies of similar nature at a subtle level. Whenever you
experience similar kinds of emotions, they also get accumulated in the same
energy circuit, thus making it even stronger. (An example of how past lives
affect IDF and co-creation of diseases, is given in Appendix 1)
The
negative emotional memories of past traumas in the subconscious mind get stored
as energy files of digital data. Each emotional memory gets stored in separate
files of energy units. Electric impulses
which match in frequency get accumulated and create energies of depression
/disease in the body which are not in conscious control of the person.
The
data base has to be accessed subconsciously and the energy frequency changed
with therapy and meditation towards neutralizing the negative. These energy
formations do not break till you make a conscious attempt to break them, by
processing out the negative energy accumulated in your mind.
Deep
Energy healing which also aims at emotional healing clears the negative
energies of the mental, emotional and etheric body and connects your inner self
to your astral and spiritual bodies. Integration of bodies leads to alignment
of soul, body and mind so that you can make choices while integrating your life
purpose. Healing of the soul bodies and reconnecting with the spiritual self
creates positivity in mind and release positive hormones in the body as a state
of being in peace with life’s choices is attained. Feeling in peace prevents
diseases and minimizes need for medicines or surgery.
If
you maintain focus at this point, for about thirty seconds, you will attain a
ZERO state of mind or a detached state of mind. Activating this silence zone
will create energy shifts in your body. This space of neutrality is activated
by sparing time to focus upon it on a daily basis once or several times a day.
As
you keep focusing on the space above your lips, try to feel the breath coming
in, going into your stomach and coming from your stomach, to your nostrils and
out. Feel the connection between the breath and your stomach moving in and out
as you inhale and exhale. Be aware that your body is responding to the
breathing.
Getting
an awareness of the connection between your stomach and your nose will take
some time but as you get an awareness, you will feel more relaxed and more in
control of your life.
Make
sure that you are not focusing on your problems while you are focusing at
this point between your nose and lips. While maintaining focus at this point,
you will neither feel positive or negative. You will be in a state of neutral
detachment. From this state of detachment, you can move to focusing on happy
feelings by choice.
{You
cannot jump from a negative state of mind to a positive state of mind till you
pass the neutral zone. Detachment from predominating worries is necessary to
shift your Internal Dominant Focus (IDF) point from sad to happy and create
happiness in the future. No problem will be resolved till you stay negative as
solutions require a positive frequency of thinking}
The Subconscious
Mind Always Has a Positive Intention
There
is a soul lesson underlying every negative experience. Memories of difficulties
are stored because the subconscious mind wants you to learn how not to repeat
the mistake. Just as a toddler makes mistakes in acquiring a balance while
learning to walk, souls fall into difficulties while learning to evolve.
The
negative memory that was originally created by the event which caused the
strong emotional impact, and was subsequently reinforced by similar events
which followed, can be erased, only after
learning the soul lesson involved.
Usually, any small reminder of the original
mistake triggers awake the whole chain of sad emotional feelings attached with
the memory of mistakes.
The subconscious
mind immediately reminds you that you are again taking the same route which led
to hurt earlier. Therefore, you experience deep feelings of hurt and pain which
were experienced during the original crisis situation, even though the present
occasion may be much milder and need not require arousal of such extreme
distress. You are governed by your soul, subconsciously. Even if you do not
recall the exact events, the feelings of imbalance or fear pass through energy
circuits as negative electric impulses, travelling at neon speed.
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