For home-makers, marriage is like a profession and like any profession,
it has to be continued if it gives joy rather than for survival needs.
Home-makers need to understand like other work employees do, that they cannot
sacrifice their soul needs for satisfying a general definition of love or success
or happiness. Love is the reward for staying married but if love dies out,
continuing with the marriage is like continuing a job without being paid for
it.
Staying married for the sake of being tied to a ritual increases negative feelings
of being exploited, non-understood or sexually deprived. A ritualistic,
compromised marriage takes the involved people away from God, because marriage
is a sacred union and the sacredness comes from the purity of intention, not
the ritual involved.
If the partners do not love each other and still stay married, then they
cheat God because they become negative and move away from the positive
frequency of the Creator.
Any close relationship would be a part of a soul-plan and would have
karmic challenges. A marriage like any other work has challenges but the test
of whether staying married is a part of a soul plan or not is, whether the
union leads to more happiness or distress in our lives.
If the marriage helps us achieve our soul purpose, staying married would make us feel at peace even if there is
friction. Our future would be happy if staying married creates more happiness
in our lives than negativity. If it does not, then, maybe, detachment and
breaking of redundant values is the soul lesson involved.
For further reading , please refer to the book CREATION OF HAPPINESS - THE ENERGY WAR , a soul's perspective .
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