This blog is an excerpt from the book : A Course In Emotional Management
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Principle 2 –The Subconscious Mind Chooses Pleasure over Pain
The subconscious mind
is the storehouse of all information, which you have acquired since your
conception, as a soul. Your soul lives eternally. Each life is taken as an
experience of learning how to co-create a better world for self and all.
Mistakes are taken as learning lessons and the subconscious mind is programmed
to help you to not repeat mistakes.
The subconscious mind
retains the learning which you derived, from your past mistakes made in
childhood or past lives. The experience is stored as an equation in the
subconscious mind and a response program is created subconsciously so that you don’t
repeat the same mistakes in the future.
This response program creates
impulsive reactions in your body. You feel a certain way in a situation because
your subconscious mind brings up the stored learning whenever a previously
encountered emotional experience again arises.
The subconscious mind
seeks to avoid pain. If a situation created trauma in a person’s life earlier,
it is recorded as a painful memory and the subconscious mind makes the program
to avoid the recurrence of the pain. Hence, when a similar situation arises
which threatened a person in his past, then the subconscious mind may create
anxiety or panic in the body. Panic
arises to make the person avoid that situation or react in an inappropriate
manner to escape from that situation as soon as possible.
For example, if you
are an emotional person and get hurt soon, the subconscious mind will try to
avoid the pain of feeling rejected or criticized. Suppose drinking alcohol helps you avoid that
pain. Then, the subconscious mind will create physical feelings, which urge you
to drink so that you can avoid thinking about the situation which causes
emotional hurt.
The subconscious mind
cannot think by itself and urges you to escape feeling negative though, you may
become an alcoholic in the process of choosing pleasure over pain.
The subconscious mind
chooses pleasure over pain, without caring about your health or soul purpose.
Its operative system is like a hard disk made to help you be free of problems.
If you give it a problem, it provides you a solution without thinking of
whether that solution is good or bad for your well-being. You have to programme
the subconscious mind to give you solutions while taking your health and soul
purpose into consideration. Your subconscious mind has a search engine like an
internet network connected to celestial intelligence. In semi trance state of
focus, you can ask it for solutions as you ask questions on the search engine
of a computer.
The more specific your
question, the more precise is the answer. If you ask for short cuts to
problems, you get answers like taking drugs or liquor to avoid confrontations
with your inner conflicts. But if you ask your mind to search for long term
solutions, you may find yourself desiring to meditate than drink alcohol to
calm your nerves. Your subconscious mind will help your body feel healthy if
you decide to focus on positive feelings deliberately.
While
using intuitive guidance during meditation, if you clearly instruct the
subconscious mind that you need a solution for your emotional problem, without
harming your body, then the subconscious mind will compute another solution
which will help you without getting addicted; though the solution may require long-term
patience and diligence.
All undesirable habits
are installed in the subconscious mind and have corresponding energy circuits
or neuro-pathways which get strengthened by constant focus. The subconscious
mind will choose that which is more pleasurable. It is up to the conscious mind
to decide and rectify the damage.
When you focus on
positive feelings, positive electric impulses are released and positive
hormones are absorbed by the body. Positive hormones help you make choices
which ensure that you stay healthy.
So, the conscious mind
has to deliberately change the feelings it focuses on to change an undesirable
habit. A change of focus leads to neurological changes in the subconscious
mind.
When your emotional
needs are addressed and resolved, you will find it easy to de-addict.
To be able to successfully change an undesirable
habit, you need to find a habit which is more pleasurable because the
subconscious mind chooses pleasure over pain.
For example, in case
of alcoholism, the desire is to escape from worries by staying thoughtless. Thoughtlessness
can also be achieved - through mind control and meditation.
Instead of drinking
and cribbing, you can imagine yourself free of chains and exhale air in
silence, use day dreaming to feel happy or positive visualization. A habit of
sleeping more can also be developed, by using appropriate breathing exercises,
which, overtime, becomes a more pleasurable habit than drinking alcohol. The
subconscious mind is happy as long as pain can be avoided, and you can derive
pleasure if you can escape, sleep, fly or dance in your meditative/imaginative
films than harm the body.
Meditation
leads to a feeling of controlled thoughtlessness. If practiced regularly,
meditation gets you in as hallucinated a state as alcoholism, while helping
improve your physical health and peace of mind in the long run.
In a gist, every undesirable habit has a positive
intention and the undesirable habit can be successfully overcome only when the
positive intention can be satisfied through alternate methods.
For getting free from undesirable emotional
patterns of thinking, conflicts or addictions, it helps to use self –hypnosis
combined with naturopathy for changing inner emotional focus. When the positive
intention served by the undesirable habit can be deciphered, alternate methods
of pacifying the subconscious mind can be developed.
Learning Task 9 – What are the Positive Feelings You Gain from
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