Most people feel chained in life by
responsibilities and targets. However, though you may feel negative about
having these chains around you, you also need to be aware that you have kept
these chains alive for gaining some emotional benefit from these relationships
or work ambitions.
To stay positive, it is essential that your focus
remains on the benefits you gain from having the chains around you than on the
loss of freedom you may experience.
Metaphorically, a stray dog would feel more
sheltered if kept as a pet but the same logic does not hold true for a human
being. Unlike the dog that has low frequency compared to a human spirit, the more powerful human soul would not be
satisfied with just being maintained with food, clothing and shelter. A human
soul needs more than satisfaction than basic needs to not feel chained.
A human being may feel mistreated if kept as a pet
dog/ cat etc.. For example, a woman may feel chained with a husband who provides food and shelter but abuses her in
anger as if she were worthless. Similarly, a man may feel chained in the house
or a work environment which does not give him the respect to express his
creativity or originality.
Your chains would help you or block you depending
on how you expect to be treated and respected.
For instance, a wife or husband feel suffocated in
a sexless marriage, where loyalty to the marriage institution may lead to
staying sheltered as a pet than being loved or respected as a human vibration .
If you have
chains around you which make you feel more dis-respected than loved, it is
possible to break the fear which binds you to stay in chains.
Therapy in emotional management aims at increasing
your self -esteem so that you can utilize your soul potential for your highest
good. All negative situations which lower your soul frequency can be released
for your soul upliftment through meditation, self healing or therapy as
explained subsequently.
The following simplified exercise would help you
decipher which chains of your life are unnecessary and which chains are
necessary.
In effect, positive chains continue to give you
happiness and purpose in life whereas negative chains continue because of
tradition.
Only a persistent focus on self-healing leads to
breaking of the negative chains that a person feels bound in life which creates
a distressed mind and a non-healthy body…
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Learning Task 3 –Redefining Responsibilities By Understanding Positive Intention Of The Soul
Make a list of the chains you feel bound by in your
life. For example, chains of relationships e.g. Work, parents, spouse, children
etc.
Now, recall whether the chains are there because
they make you feel better being with these people than alone.
Think of a situation where these chains did not
exist. Would you feel more positive or worse?
Would being
free of the chains make you feel happier or more lonely and direction-less?
Now, think if the chains were made of flowers and
not steel, where you feel bound but have freedom to move in your own space
without having the fear of breaking off and left alone? Does that make you feel
better?
Be
Aware That The Chains Do Not Exist Except In the Mind
In your self-
allotted space or silent time, as
you review your subconscious choices, create GAP states . Stop thinking of your
worries by deliberate mind control . Force a GAP STATE and smile within yourself for one second or
two seconds .
As
you keep practicing thoughtlessness in meditation, you would develop training
in detachment . Overtime, you would move into a spiritual journey of
self healing and if needed, invest in
soul healing therapy .
Keep
asking yourself in silent moments if you can allow yourself to feel unchained
and yet gain the positive energies which the chains are yielding.
If
the chains help you feel better, make it a habit to focus on the positive
vibrations which the chains yield in your life than on cribbing about the
responsibilities. Complaining and worrying would release negative hormones in
your body and harm your health whereas focusing on positive aspects of life
would release positive hormones in the body which improve health and happiness.
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