Love, Sex and Loyalty

Loyalty is a big issue in relationships involving love and sex.

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When relationships break, a usual reason is disloyalty. energy cord cutting helps in healing the soul and moving on.

Loyalty is needed if you want to evolve to happiness, as a soul seeking satisfaction or  enlightenment.

Being loyal from the core,  is a sign of soul evolution as it involves sacrifice, taming of wilderness, and delaying immediate satisfaction for building a loving household.

Sacrificing physical demands for oneness of the soul is necessary to evolve. Monkeys evolved into human beings and loyalty, as a concept, developed as civilization demanded private ownership of property.  .

Human consciousness evolved from being animal like to building a civilization, because loyalty evoked the need. Towns were created wherein people stayed together in loyalty based households. 

Before there were rituals of marriage, there was loyalty amongst soulmates who stayed together and made a house to be in oneness. The need for a house, and then countries arouse because there was a need for love and loyalty in the evolving soul. Loyalty is a concept of the civilized world and it cannot be disregarded as insignificant in love, sex and marriage ( or simultaneous evolution of souls.)

In modern times, Loyalty in love can  be equated to a street dog evolving to becoming a house dog.

Indian religion depicts that the highest dimension Gods  are loyal to their partners, who depict oneness in thinking and sexuality.

Loyalty helps love grow deep and strong If the partners can complete each other and do not compete with each other, if they can synchronize their needs to adjust to each other’s work demands and can agree in thinking during difficult times.

However, most couples cannot stay loyal to each other because of differences in thinking. Loyalty is bad if it is for negative people who make you feel caged/ suffocated in expression, 

Some people feel so caged being tied to one person that they prefer being street dogs.

However, being stray does not increase happiness and loyalty helps more in increasing happiness if the partners evolve together as souls, like each other and can adjust without bitterness staying long.

Having free sex with anyone has karmic setbacks. You exchange deep core energies during the act of sex, and you would pick up the sadness of the person you have sex with, as energies move in with the body. A happy man can become sad and a  good man can become bad if he has sex wita negatve woman. Similarly, a spiritual woman can become depressed and a  beautiful woman can become fat, by having sex with a  person whose energies are low in frequency than hers.

Sex is a physical need and seeks satiation but,  like market sex like fast food does not always give satisfaction. People eat fatty foods like men going to prostitutes to fulfil hunger. But, bad sex like bad food is harmful. Love arises from taking responsibility. 

Sex can lead to anxiety, stress and diseases. If unaccompanied with love, it creates mental tension more than give peace.

 While being a street dog gives you freedom, it also makes you beg for satisfaction. You keep hunting and you do not get satiated. There is endless craving and no respite.

Terrorists, dacoits and criminals who seek negative power to indulge in violence, use sex to gain sadness from women they harm. Soldiers in war are allowed to rape women because the energy of hurt passes through sex and makes the soldiers revengeful, to attack.

Frustrations soar after rape and violent needs rise. The restlessness which a person seeks to calm through sex, does not calm down. After a short spam of rest, anger becomes double as you also catch the anger of the person you use for sex.

Taming yourself to be loyal in sex is a part of becoming civilized as human beings. Just as animals evolved into humans and made houses, consciousness evolves when you stick to one person and sacrifice immediate satisfaction for freedom in expressing passion as in long term togetherness.

Just as health grows if you can eat more healthy food than fast food, happiness, love and sexual connection deepens if you do not allow foreign energies to build walls between you and your soulmate