“ Happiness is the sustained increase in positive energy vibration of the soul which is reflected by good health and peacefulness of mind , as contrasted with unhappiness which is a progressive decline in good health and peacefulness of the mind “
By learning to silent the negative chatter of the mind, we
de-addict from negative thinking. Our soul rises up and takes charge of our
body. Positive thinking takes over when we allow ourselves to feel neutral or
peaceful at intervals.
Discovering ourselves, as souls, helps to break the
recurring dichotomy between the desires of the body and those of the soul.
.If we choose to be happy than stressed, as souls, we come
out of staying in difficulties.
We do not help anyone by staying negative and feeling
compromised as a negative vibration radiates negative energy patterns on our
own life and lives around us . We can help ourselves or others only by creating
positive energy cycles.
By learning to be positive, we radiate brighter light as
souls and hence brighten the life force of the Creator. Just as the body
functions better when each cell feels bright, the God’s universe functions
better when each souls feels positive about its own life by choice and with awareness.
We help God or the
Creator by activating our soul’s energies
of co-creation and taking responsibility for all that happens in our life by
understanding vibrational movement of our choice of feelings Problems are created by a negative mental
focus and happiness is created by our soul’s positive vibrational frequency
overriding the sadness with an optimistic spirit to achieve a specific purpose
of evolution which makes the soul feel brighter in energy by being more
content, satisfied or feeling loved
through its endeavors at co-creation . These concepts are discussed in detail
in my other books on the soul’s perspective of happiness.
Every book in this series of creating happiness as part of
the purpose of the soul to rise to a higher positive frequency, would
incorporate some self-help exercises. This book starts with the basic self
-help exercises, equally needed by base learners and advanced leaners on the
path of co-creating happiness.
The following thought processes can be inculcated with
daily practice. Please follow the exercises accurately. These are based on
summarizing extensive research from several workshops and meditation courses.
1. If we are conditioned into focusing
on problems subconsciously, we have to consciously, make efforts to be
thoughtless. Being without any thought helps to stop thinking negative. Only by
not thinking negative, can we come out of the difficulties we perceive as our
reality.
2. We have to pause our habit of worrying by smiling within ourselves for a few seconds every hour by focusing on anything positive in our life or the word around us . By feeling positive deliberately, we brake the flow of routine negative emotional current in the body. Just as we have to apply brakes on a car to reverse it, we have to break the habit of negative thinking by being thoughtless, to reverse our soul's energy vibration to positive .
2. We have to pause our habit of worrying by smiling within ourselves for a few seconds every hour by focusing on anything positive in our life or the word around us . By feeling positive deliberately, we brake the flow of routine negative emotional current in the body. Just as we have to apply brakes on a car to reverse it, we have to break the habit of negative thinking by being thoughtless, to reverse our soul's energy vibration to positive .
3.
Every day for ten
minutes we need to remain completely free of thinking. We need to just breathe
and smile for theses ten minutes while completely detaching from the outside
world. Using an alarm clock helps, if we can allot a specific time. Silence
helps to create neutral electric impulses while smiling releases positive
hormones in the body; thus erasing a negative energy circuitry previously
dominant.
4. A habit of being in internal
silence needs to be acquired within the mind even if there is no time or no
silence outside. Start with being silent
or smiling inwardly for ten seconds every hour in a detached manner. Deliberate, conscious mind control
helps break the habit of automatic, unconscious negative thinking. Use Traffic
jams and travelling time to remain thoughtless in inner silence.
5. Every time, negative feelings rise
within you, about yourself, any person or situation, try to think two positive feelings deliberately. Thank
God each time you
think about the positive qualities. Thanking is a positive energy and attracts
more positive energy overtime. Your soul will attract more happy and healthy
energy as positive wins over negative by your choice of focus.
6.
Do
not dwell on the negative as you will fall down the slope suddenly like a
current taking you over. Force yourself to stop thinking negative and push
yourself up to instead focus on some positive aspects of your life, yourself or the situation.
7. Ignore the abusive people in your life as secondary to your priorities of
thinking. There are abusive people in everybody’s life as we come on Earth to
defeat negative energies which come through people or circumstances. Becoming immune
to negative influence helps dilute negative force and spread positive soul
consciousness like light spreading over darkness. A person who is negative seeks to inflict the
virus of negative thinking over you and feel justified himself in his own
sorrows. When you shift your focus away from negative words, you defeat the
negative energy in motion and thus, neutralize the impact of his/her energies
over you.
(The Energy Cord Cutting Process is very useful to remove
emotional control of negative people in your life. The process uses self-
hypnosis for healing emotional energy wounds in the subconscious mind. It is
given in the books which cover soul healing methods in detailed steps viz. - A COURSE IN EMOTIONAL MANAGEMENT and REDEFINING HAPPINESS.)
Do not set time limits for yourself. The process of
internal change is long but rewarding in terms of increasing internal
satisfaction.
Meditation will create a new energy cycle overtime wherein
an old negative life pattern would get demolished. A phase of detachment and
being neutral would come which will be followed by health and happiness.
However, the interim
period would be a test of patience and perseverance. Several old values,
beliefs and needs would get challenged as we come out of the habit of negative
thinking. Overtime, circumstances and people would change as our choices start
aligning with the purpose of our soul.
While this book explains the crux of meditation practices,
there are problems in the structural evolution of human beings which have to be
separately addressed to find inner happiness.
There are several conditioned problems which create
circumstantial problems in human existence. Some of these problems come from
the carry - over of the traditional beliefs of institutionalized structures of
marriage, education, health & armies; due to not having the awareness of
how to change the rigidly set rules according to individual priorities &
soul needs. Often, severe health
problems arise as a result of constantly feeling negative by choice to brood
and remain sad. There is no training
given during the education years on how to release the suppression of negative
subconscious feelings which solidify as negative energy structures in the body
due to years of negligence & suppression.
Very often, normal people are willing to let go of rigid
traditions simply by being made aware that God does not judge you by your
ability to follow the rules created by man-made institutions or religions. The
more each individuals aligns directly to the frequency of the Creator and feels
like a co-creator, the more s/he is willing to detach from pre-conditioned
norms of happiness.
The definitions of happiness as set by your parents or
fore-fathers are not ideal as negative thinking patterns have affected them as
much as they affect you. The institutions of marriage and education created in
the olden days have to be modified so that individual human beings learn how to
be happy & peaceful as a result of following institutional structures and
do not become more stressed and unhealthy, as is happening now.
While these
institutions can be easily made flexible by incorporating simple meditation
& soul healing methods in everyday life, they have been unable to do so up
till now due to lack of awareness. These methods of meditation & healing
have to be taught from childhood and through the years of schooling so that
adults are trained in being emotionally adaptable to overcome difficulties of
life as much as they are trained in using maths to manage the money
markets. Health problems can be
prevented through positive thinking by using few individualized simple
exercises of soul healing. However, the belief that compromise & suffering
are fatalities of life blocks evolution to happiness.
Two core challenges which the human world faces in the
creation of being happy in difficulties, are discussed in the appendices.
However, for a routine curse in meditation and feeling
positive, this book if followed literally, is as good as any meditation course
from the common man’s perspective.
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In summary, the
process of change is similar to slimming down. We are often tempted to think
negatively and we have to self-discipline ourselves.
Whenever free, we need to be either thoughtless or smile to
enhance positive vibrations. Smiling inwardly releases positive hormones in the
body which create positive feelings. Positive feelings lead to creation of
positive electric impulses and a positive internal focus. Hence, a dominant
internal focus can be shifted to positive by deliberately smiling inwardly as
often as possible. We need to be happy in difficulties to get out of any
negative situation.
Only a positive
internal dominant focus can help us become free of chains of a negative
external reality. Patterns of recurring difficulties would appear insignificant
by changing internal energy frequency from negative to positive. Difficulties
are learning lessons for an evolving soul, and the lessons download as intuition
develops.