Saturday, 2 November 2024

Emotional Management From The Spiritual Perspective

 Emotional Management includes Past Life therapy, inner child healing, neuro-linguistic programming, Reiki, Pranik healing, Theta Healing, Life between Life Healing, Psychology based behavior analysis and vibrational colour therapy given through energy healing. This methodology of healing is based on healing the feelings of a person. Feelings affect the energy field of the human being and create his /her reality of life. The negative feelings are healed through analyzing the soul’s vibrations so that the negative energy which creates diseases and anxieties is released, by choice to let go, and the soul’s vibrational axis is balanced. The healing helps to shift the vibrational axis of the soul shifts to positive automatically by removing the past negative energy which tilted it to negative and awakening the person subconsciously, to his present reality, at the soul level. .

Emotional Management has developed since research has expanded to soul healing in the NEW AGE in alignment with the need for balancing the Axis of Earth.Emotional Management is an energy healing therapeutic science which facilitates movement towards happiness for individual, as well as, mass consciousness.

 Just as Earth’s axis was tilted more towards the left, humanity ‘s axis was tilted towards left brain more than the right brain. Hence, there was a lop-sided focus on technological/machine based/stresscreating development at the cost of neglecting development of the free, creative spirit/spiritual /positive emotional development. Due to this lop-sided focus, negative energy increased on the planet which created imbalances in human welfare.

Earth as a planet seeks to restore its axis balance to being centrally aligned. Being balanced helps Earth move up to a higher frequency in alignment with the needs of the NEW AGE.

Calamities happen as the planet Earth throws off suppressed negative energy by bursting it into earthquakes, volcanoes or floods. Recently, due to the earthquakes and other calamites, nature’srebalancing has shifted Earth’s axis.

In the New Age, as the human race strives to survive by matching frequencies with the planet’s energies movingtowards the fifth dimension; a corresponding rebalancing in the human mind is needed, for balancing the human axis. The human brain is balanced by equally emphasizing the spiritual/emotional and material/technological aspects of life.

Emotional Management facilitates the shift towards the right brain. An Energy shift towards the right/ spiritual side of the brain would address soul needs. As consciousness uplifts, there would be a need to invest time, money and effort towards spiritual ascension and addressing emotional needs to be healthier in the body. Attention goes wherever money and time are invested. As long as Earth’s axis was tilted, money and time were invested on largely technological development. In the New Age, Money and energies would be invested on energy healing and emotional management for uplifting soul frequency towards feeling optimistic and thus, raise overall positive frequencies on the planet.

This blog is an excerpt from my book - Emotional Management 

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Saturday, 14 September 2024

New Age (Satiyug)

 

Calculations by Aryabhatta are scientific. Calculations by King Parikshit in the Mahabharata are not matching with current cosmic changes and may have been politically manipulated and falsely made to hold some positions of power


The blog is an excerpt from my book - Creation Of Happiness: The Energy War chapter 16 ,written in 2011.

Due to some astronomical changes which take place every 75000 years, the frequencies on planet Earth are expected to undergo a change in the next few decades. Every 25000 years, the planet Earth goes through a shift on the astronomical plane. Every 75000 years, this shift is expected to be a major one, as is happening now. 


The recent earthquake in Japan (2011), in which land shifted by 8 meters, and there was supposedly a movement in the axis of Earth; is an example of the kind of changes we can expect in our geographical structure due to the Shift.


This Shift has been astronomically and astrologically predicted and is symbolized by THE NEW AGE.


In the New Age, beginning in 2012, Earth will revolve at a higher speed of vibration around its axis. Its frequency will rise, as it will move to a higher positive dimension of the universe. As mentioned in chapter four, right now the planet exists in the third dimension on the universal plane. In the year 2012, the planet would start graduating to a dimension which supports more positive frequencies, viz. the fourth dimension. 


Due to the shifting of its axis, in correspondence with the New Age, Earth would have a different point of dominant focus and enter a new energy cycle, where it would still revolve around the Sun, but from a slightly higher plane. Earth would be able to resonate with more positive energies, on this higher plane of existence.


As the frequencies of the planet evolve, the overall physical and energy composition of the planet will undergo a change. Everything would adjust to align with a more positive frequency. All that which cannot align with a more blissful state of being, would be automatically dissolved.


Because of this shift in the overall energies of the planet, the mass human consciousness of the planet would also have to undergo a transformation, as thoughts of low frequency would no longer be supported by the planet. 


With the coming of the NEW AGE, thought waves which are focused on generating predominantly positive feelings would resonate with the planet’s higher energy frequencies, whereas thought waves carrying negative feelings would not. That is because thought waves encompassing largely negative feelings vibrate at a low frequency. Hence, thoughts of negative frequencies would face rejection by the planet at a physical energy manifestation level.



Explaining Through an Analogy


Metaphorically, the planet Earth can be compared to a car picking up speed. When a car is standing, it collects a lot of dust. Negative energy is like dust. Dust gets thrown off as the car picks up speed. Similarly, negative energy accumulates in periods of stagnation but it cannot remain in periods of rapid change. It needs to get discarded to facilitate change. 


Likewise, thought patterns which focus on negative feelings are slowing down human development today. For human development to pick up speed, either the negative thinkers need to leave the planet or they have to motivate themselves to think positive.


Souls which continue to have frequencies of third dimension while the planet shifts up to fourth dimension, would get thrown off the planet like energy dust. Only people with thoughts which focus on positive feelings would be able to remain on this planet.


From an energy perspective, this means that the planet would seek to throw off clusters of negative energy .Negative energy would fall off the planet since its speed of rotation would be so high that energies of low frequency which are usually stuck or slow moving would get swept off; as towns have been getting swept off in the Tsunami floods. 


The shift of energy may result in a large-scale eradication of human species, which is focused on the negative aspects of life. Diseases, epidemics, accidents, natural and man-made calamities like wars etc. would aid the planet in extinguishing energies which are no longer needed for evolution.





A Difficult Transition


As a consequence of the physical energy shifts, the transition to the fourth dimension may be difficult for the human race. Right now, human beings have a consciousness whose energy frequency matches the third dimensional energy frequency of Earth. 


Individual consciousness is largely focused on negative feelings in the third dimension; and hence, the soul energy in each body vibrates at a low frequency.


Now, the planet will exist in the fourth dimension. To rise up with the planet, human beings have to consciously raise their energy frequency, from predominantly negative to predominantly positive. 


An energy shift in the body ensures that the soul is able to receive life force from its Higher Self and is able to radiate it out for creating more light/happiness by revolving at a high positive frequency. 

To rise up with the planet, the soul frequency needs to vibrate at a speed, which is in resonance with the rise in the vibrational frequency of the planet, as a whole. 


Intellectually, this entails letting go of the habit of focusing on negative energies which block creation, and developing a higher level of awareness of what is being created through our focus.


At a physical energy manifestation level, the transition required virtually, necessitates shifting the axis of our thoughts, in resonance with the shifting of Earth’s axis.


This change in human frequency cannot occur automatically, because the energy frequency of a body can change only when the person inhabiting the body changes her/his thoughts, willingly at a conscious level. The change to feeling positive from within cannot be enforced. It requires a change of heart towards believing in a positive world, and allowing positive soul force to function optimally by opening the chakras or energy centers of the body. The shift to positivity cannot come about by a sole belief on  science or a blind belief in religion. The external world of science needs to be balanced with the internal world of the soul so that the soul can create through using the scientific , physical world as a medium.


Souls, on Earth, can raise their consciousness and vibrations to higher frequencies, if they are ready to deliberately shift their focus to feeling positive, through disciplining their minds to not worry about the negative.

The test of whether we feel positive, internally, or not is the increase in the flow of positive hormones in the body, compared to when we did not use positive visualization or meditation to feel better. Even if our mental conflicts rise or our health deteriorates before becoming better, we should feel mentally more at peace if we are focusing on positive energy of happiness, than on negative energies of worry or gloom.

When we shift focus to feeling happy from within, we think differently. We no longer need to fool ourselves by compromising to an external definition of happiness without feeling calm from within. If we are internally positive, we should feel positively expectant about life. The resulting positive energy should make us feel happier and healthier than we did before shifting focus to the positive.


To internally focus on staying positive, we would have to learn to make our decisions in life expecting positive outcomes and not make choices, out of to fear of negative outcomes.

After the transition, to the NEW AGE, love and compassion are expected to become the driving source in all human interactions, in place of the existing driving forces of fear and competition. 


The choice to raise or not to raise its consciousness lies with each soul. Those souls which cannot raise their consciousness and continue to engage in thought patterns which focus on negative feelings, violence or suffering, may no longer be able to survive on this planet.


Though most human beings choose to focus on rational, conventional modes of thinking and operation, it cannot be denied that human science has not been able to explain how we choose to die. The moment of death is a pure soul decision be it by an illness, an accident, a flood or a war . Even if we insist that we cannot give up feeling negative because of a forecast that we would die, we cannot be sure that we won’t.


 The creation of floods, famines or earthquakes has up till now been unexplainable except in terms of geographical changes. Nobody has been able to control the geographical upheavals which have lead to human calamities, because the science of energy phenomenon has not been explored or researched in depth. 


In the chapters ahead, we would study a bit about how human energies cluster to create famines, earthquakes, floods and wars ; and how these calamities aid our planet in dissolving excess negativity and restoring its energy balance between the negative and positive. 



Sunday, 1 September 2024

Multiply Emotions of Positivity To Get Victory

 

Victory for the Soul is Higher Positivity Over Negativity internally at the level of vibrational transmission of electric life force energy . Your life is successful when your electric units of watts are higher at death than when you were born i.e you are more optimistic , clearer ,brighter from within !


This blog is an excerpt from my book- Emotional Management,a soul's perspectives


Emotional management helps a person learn how to remain positive when negative energy attacks in the form of difficulties. If the person does not understand how to manage emotions such as to convert negative energy into positive by choice , his/her soul starts radiating depression as negative energy takes over the positive life force of the person. The person’s thinking, spoken words and soul vibrations vibrate out the energy of predominant feelings being focused upon.  A person dominated by negative emotions allows the energy of compromise to rule his mind and his body starts behaving dis-satisfactorily like  a bulb glowing with less light.

Every person on Earth encounters difficulties which have to be overcome while the soul endeavors to master the art of creation on Earth , as a co-creator or part of the Creator. 

Difficulties come in the path of achieving emotional desires and are planned by the soul itself before incarnating in a life-plan . The difficulties have to be overcome such that the soul remains optimistic about attaining its desires in the future,  as a soul who has no desire would not co-create anything positive . For example,  human civilization developed from a desire to build houses. 

If man had given up the struggle, we would still be animals living without houses in jungles. Therefore, difficulties have to be overcome such that desires continue to motivate the person to create a better life, which is possible only when positive emotions dominate over negative emotions through learning how to apply emotional management in everyday life. 

Our soul is like  a driver while the body is like  a car . A soul who can maintain a healthy body and an optimistic mind through rough patches  of life increases its power as  a co-creator and helps God just as a driver becomes better in his skills after crossing over speed obstacles; while a soul who feels helpless through life and keeps compromising reduces its vibrational frequency, develops diseases in the body , restlessness in mind and practically, lowers the potential power of the Creator . 

Happiness is an energy of a positive frequency and has to be attained by defeating the thinking of dominating negative frequencies which exist around the soul by either converting the situation to feel positive as desired or moving away from the negative person and situation by understanding detachment. 

Usually, people fail to learn the necessary emotional skills and hence, are unable to achieve happiness as desired. 

Just earning money, success or fame are not enough to find happiness, good health or peace on earth, as the soul incarnates with a life plan, to help itself master the process of creation just like a painter learning how to paint with accuracy.

For achieving any desire with satisfaction, it is necessary to learn the art of applying energies as paints over the canvas of life. The soul learns how to be happy by applying emotional skills like passion with perseverance, optimism with discipline, motivation with calmness, organization with patience, detachment with forgiveness, ambition with compassion etc.


To understand the art of creation on Earth, the soul makes a detailed life plan before birth which can be accessed in the Akkashik Records through specific questions on areas of concern.

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Saturday, 24 August 2024

HOW TO SWITCH BETWEEN NEGATIVE & POSITIVE THINKING

 To move from being sad to being happy, it is necessary to dis-organize a previous negatively established life-balance and reset the mind tuning to update new beliefs about what success should mean such that it improves health, peace and positivity in everyday life.

 

 This book is an excerpt from my book - A Course in Emotional Management


Learn How to Control your SWITCH

 

Each intense emotional situation triggers on a SWITCH in your subconscious mind which rekindles all previous experiences of the same emotion. For example, each time you feel abused, the energy of hurt gets stored in the subconscious mind as a negative emotional memory and reduces positive energy of the body.   Subsequently, whenever you encounter abuse, all previous memories of being hurt would awaken and impact your overall level of sadness. Similarly, each time you feel happy or encouraged, all previous memories of being loved awaken. Feeling loved makes you optimistic; the emotional memory of a positive vibration gets stored in the subconscious mind and improves your feelings of well-being.

Your SWITCH of feeling happy or sad is in your own control, as much as your feelings are in your own control.

You can choose to focus on good aspects of your life and feel good to create positive vibrations, by learning to control your self-talk and feelings with patience.

If you tell yourself “Life is good”, with belief, repeatedly, the energy vibration of the emotions improves your health as feeing good releases positive hormones in the body. Each time you tell ourselves ‘Life is bad’, you feel more sick and depressed. As explained in detail in my book ‘How to Be Happy in Difficulties ‘, there are energy circuits or neuron-pathways, running in the mind carrying energies of the dominant feelings we focus on.

Any event which has a strong emotional impact becomes a dominant feeling. This feeling acts as a point of internal dominant focus (IDF) and starts forming an energy circuit around itself wherein it keeps repeating itself again and again.  After some time, this energy circuit may get suppressed, as your point of dominant focus shifts to another event.

However, a strong emotional experience releases greater negativity and gets imprinted in the subconscious mind, more deeply. This suppressed negative energy reserve gets awakened each time, a similar emotional experience occurs even when the new emotional experience is much milder in intensity than the original one. This negative energy circuit which got strongly imprinted, remains in the mind and keeps attracting energies of similar nature at a subtle level. Whenever you experience similar kinds of emotions, they also get accumulated in the same energy circuit, thus making it even stronger. (An example of how past lives affect IDF and co-creation of diseases, is given in Appendix 1)

The negative emotional memories of past traumas in the subconscious mind get stored as energy files of digital data. Each emotional memory gets stored in separate files of energy units.  Electric impulses which match in frequency get accumulated and create energies of depression /disease in the body which are not in conscious control of the person.

The data base has to be accessed subconsciously and the energy frequency changed with therapy and meditation towards neutralizing the negative. These energy formations do not break till you make a conscious attempt to break them, by processing out the negative energy accumulated in your mind.

Deep Energy healing which also aims at emotional healing clears the negative energies of the mental, emotional and etheric body and connects your inner self to your astral and spiritual bodies. Integration of bodies leads to alignment of soul, body and mind so that you can make choices while integrating your life purpose. Healing of the soul bodies and reconnecting with the spiritual self creates positivity in mind and release positive hormones in the body as a state of being in peace with life’s choices is attained. Feeling in peace prevents diseases and minimizes need for medicines or surgery.

 

Self-Healing Tip- the SWITCH between a positive and meditative state of mind is a zero frequency state of mind. A ZERO /GAP state of mind is said to physically exist at the center of your moustache area which is the place between the two nostrils, above the lips.

If you maintain focus at this point, for about thirty seconds, you will attain a ZERO state of mind or a detached state of mind. Activating this silence zone will create energy shifts in your body. This space of neutrality is activated by sparing time to focus upon it on a daily basis once or several times a day.

As you keep focusing on the space above your lips, try to feel the breath coming in, going into your stomach and coming from your stomach, to your nostrils and out. Feel the connection between the breath and your stomach moving in and out as you inhale and exhale. Be aware that your body is responding to the breathing.

Getting an awareness of the connection between your stomach and your nose will take some time but as you get an awareness, you will feel more relaxed and more in control of your life.

Make sure that you are not focusing on your problems while you are focusing at this point between your nose and lips. While maintaining focus at this point, you will neither feel positive or negative. You will be in a state of neutral detachment. From this state of detachment, you can move to focusing on happy feelings by choice.

{You cannot jump from a negative state of mind to a positive state of mind till you pass the neutral zone. Detachment from predominating worries is necessary to shift your Internal Dominant Focus (IDF) point from sad to happy and create happiness in the future. No problem will be resolved till you stay negative as solutions require a positive frequency of thinking}

 

The Subconscious Mind Always Has a Positive Intention

There is a soul lesson underlying every negative experience. Memories of difficulties are stored because the subconscious mind wants you to learn how not to repeat the mistake. Just as a toddler makes mistakes in acquiring a balance while learning to walk, souls fall into difficulties while learning to evolve.

The negative memory that was originally created by the event which caused the strong emotional impact, and was subsequently reinforced by similar events which followed, can be erased, only after learning the soul lesson involved.

 Usually, any small reminder of the original mistake triggers awake the whole chain of sad emotional feelings attached with the memory of mistakes.

The subconscious mind immediately reminds you that you are again taking the same route which led to hurt earlier. Therefore, you experience deep feelings of hurt and pain which were experienced during the original crisis situation, even though the present occasion may be much milder and need not require arousal of such extreme distress. You are governed by your soul, subconsciously. Even if you do not recall the exact events, the feelings of imbalance or fear pass through energy circuits as negative electric impulses, travelling at neon speed.

The subconscious mind releases energy for you to learn from the event .Thus, you feel a much 

Friday, 16 August 2024

Choices of The Soul -The Soul As The Painter

This blog is an excerpt from my book - The Life Plan of Creation Vs An Astrology Report 

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Like a painter paints a body form with his visualization, it is our Higher Self which decides whether the soul would incarnate in a male body, a female body or a unisex body. The problems which a soul might face while being in the body like ill health, mental or physical handicaps etc. are also decided upon before birth in a life-plan made in consensus with the Higher Self. 

 

           The physical body is an approximate projection of the soul just as a painting is an approximate projection of the painter’s mind. That means that the soul is not exactly what the body represents. The soul is not fat or thin, tall or short by itself. The soul is formless, and assumes the form of the body just as water assumes the shape of its beaker, but is a formless fluid energy by itself. Thus, our soul is not the body. It is the life force in the body.

           The Higher Self envisages a particular kind of body for the soul so that it can mobilize the soul for mastering energies which would help it create the body it desires. How good or bad the body is created depends on the kinds of negative energies which the Higher Self is planning to overcome through the body. 

           

           The more accurate the soul becomes in the art of creation, the more accurately it can create a body which depicts its core identity, over its life-time. 

 

 

The soul takes birth on Earth to evolve its brightness to a higher positive frequency .By taking the birth on Earth, it attempts to increase the power of its life force energy through a process of co-creation. Earth is a planet where reality exists on a physical plane and happiness comes through physical contact with people or objects unlike the celestial plane where life exists on an energy plane. It requires more soul energy to dream and create reality on the physical plane, than on the spirit energy plane just as it requires more energy to move a solid object compared to moving a feather. Spirits are made of air and their reality is manifested differently in celestial space than on the physical space of Earth. The soul lessons of creation which are learned by overcoming difficulties on Earth can also be learned on celestial space but it is a slower process as negative energies are not so intense on the non-physical planes. It is believed that coming on Earth is a faster way of learning soul lessons than being in space as it is far more difficult to create happiness in the physical dimension than in the dimension of light.


The purpose of soul evolution is to help the soul become perfect in the art of creation so that it can evolve to think and act like the Creator in Oneness with the whole. 

In this process of learning to create, the soul has to learn how to manipulate energies so as to mobilize them for creating a reality on the physical plane. 

Focusing on positive energies helps the soul in mastering the art of creation while focusing on negative energies leads to destruction of the purpose of soul evolution.

 

The world which we take as given is actually a physical manifestation of this process of creation of which each soul is a part.

 

 The physical aspect of creation entails that we, as souls, are able to convert energies of negative frequencies into energies of positive frequencies. That means that we are able to convert our difficulties into learning lessons of creation so that they aid in the process of creation of a happiness which can be experienced through physical forms. 

 

Our soul understands the process of creation on Earth by investing its energies on pursuing its dreams. The desires which we all have are there to motivate us to create reality on the physical plane. The obstacles we face in attaining those desires help us overcome manifestations of negative energies in physical form. 

 

Any situation which makes us feel negative is an energy of negative frequency and has to be converted into an energy of positive frequency. 

When we can convert our unhappiness into happiness, we as souls are able to create what we desire to experience. 

If we are able to defeat the negative energies, and create happiness for ourselves, we move upwards on the scale of evolution. As we become internally more positive/clear in our energy frequencies, we move closer to the high positive frequencies of the Creator.




 Like a painter paints a body form with his visualization, it is our Higher Self which decides whether the soul would incarnate in a male body, a female body or a unisex body. The problems which a soul might face while being in the body like ill health, mental or physical handicaps etc. are also decided upon before birth in a life-plan made in consensus with the Higher Self. 

 

           The physical body is an approximate projection of the soul just as a painting is an approximate projection of the painter’s mind. That means that the soul is not exactly what the body represents. The soul is not fat or thin, tall or short by itself. The soul is formless, and assumes the form of the body just as water assumes the shape of its beaker, but is a formless fluid energy by itself. Thus, our soul is not the body. It is the life force in the body.

           The Higher Self envisages a particular kind of body for the soul so that it can mobilize the soul for mastering energies which would help it create the body it desires. How good or bad the body is created depends on the kinds of negative energies which the Higher Self is planning to overcome through the body. 

           

           The more accurate the soul becomes in the art of creation, the more accurately it can create a body which depicts its core identity, over its life-time. 

 

 

The soul takes birth on Earth to evolve its brightness to a higher positive frequency .By taking the birth on Earth, it attempts to increase the power of its life force energy through a process of co-creation. Earth is a planet where reality exists on a physical plane and happiness comes through physical contact with people or objects unlike the celestial plane where life exists on an energy plane. It requires more soul energy to dream and create reality on the physical plane, than on the spirit energy plane just as it requires more energy to move a solid object compared to moving a feather. Spirits are made of air and their reality is manifested differently in celestial space than on the physical space of Earth. The soul lessons of creation which are learned by overcoming difficulties on Earth can also be learned on celestial space but it is a slower process as negative energies are not so intense on the non-physical planes. It is believed that coming on Earth is a faster way of learning soul lessons than being in space as it is far more difficult to create happiness in the physical dimension than in the dimension of light.


The purpose of soul evolution is to help the soul become perfect in the art of creation so that it can evolve to think and act like the Creator in Oneness with the whole. 

In this process of learning to create, the soul has to learn how to manipulate energies so as to mobilize them for creating a reality on the physical plane. 

Focusing on positive energies helps the soul in mastering the art of creation while focusing on negative energies leads to destruction of the purpose of soul evolution.

 

The world which we take as given is actually a physical manifestation of this process of creation of which each soul is a part.

 

 The physical aspect of creation entails that we, as souls, are able to convert energies of negative frequencies into energies of positive frequencies. That means that we are able to convert our difficulties into learning lessons of creation so that they aid in the process of creation of a happiness which can be experienced through physical forms. 

 

Our soul understands the process of creation on Earth by investing its energies on pursuing its dreams. The desires which we all have are there to motivate us to create reality on the physical plane. The obstacles we face in attaining those desires help us overcome manifestations of negative energies in physical form. 

 

Any situation which makes us feel negative is an energy of negative frequency and has to be converted into an energy of positive frequency. 

When we can convert our unhappiness into happiness, we as souls are able to create what we desire to experience. 

If we are able to defeat the negative energies, and create happiness for ourselves, we move upwards on the scale of evolution. As we become internally more positive/clear in our energy frequencies, we move closer to the high positive frequencies of the Creator.


Monday, 5 August 2024

Emotional Hurt Is Like Physical Hurt For The Soul

 This blog is an excerpt from my book Emotional Energy Management



The subconscious mind releases energy for you to learn from the event .Thus, you feel a much greater surge of negative emotional energy getting released than the current event can justify.  At a rational level, you do not understand why you are feeling so anxious, afraid or hurt.

By awakening your fear and trauma, your subconscious mind asks you to test your readiness and to review and change your strategy, if there are chances of you getting hurt again in the same way... If you have become more emotionally resilient, you would be able to overcome the inner unrest and move on with your plan or change your thinking such that you are more sure of manifesting happiness and peace for yourself, as an outcome of your efforts...

The positive intention of the soul is to evolve consciousness to a higher frequency so that your inner soul vibrations manifest your desires with more clarity.

 

 

 

External Impact of Unreleased Emotional Energy

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Emotional hurt is like physical hurt for the soul. It has to be healed immediately for the soul to revive back its original strength. Otherwise, the emotional hurt remains unreleased and creates formations like pus or cysts in the body which block normal response flow.

Due to subconscious emotional circuits getting triggered awake, you may react to the external stimuli far more strongly than other people can justify. This aspect matters in daily functioning because it determines how you publicly manage your emotions in situations of stress.

For example, suppose you felt deeply humiliated in childhood and your colleague did not have any such strong emotional experience.  Now, you both have a superior who loses his temper often.  You feel deeply humiliated and hurt each time the superior shouts at you. However, when the superior shouts at the colleague, s/he ignores it indifferently.

Thus, his response to the superior’s shouting is very different from yours, even though the external experience for both of you was the same.

So, the superior would not understand why you are taking his shouting negatively whereas your colleague is not. At a rational, reasoning level there would be no justifiable reason for your feeling humiliated when your other colleagues take the same experience coolly.

Monday, 22 July 2024

Biased,Lop Sided Brain Development By Current Education System

 The present education system has created a revolution in technology but has not solved problems which affect happiness directly like depression, psychological sickness, relationship breakdowns, corruption, terrorism etc.; hence, unrest and violence in society have increased. An understanding of what the soul needs from improving its efforts, is necessary to realize inner happiness as a direct outcome of effort and not as a side effect of success. 


All technology innovations which we are so proud of as human beings, have been made only in the direction of improving external display or comforts without sufficient attention being given to our internal emotional and spiritual needs.


Happiness comes from satisfying the needs of emotional satisfaction along with acquiring bodily comforts. Becoming successful without feeling happy is like painting the walls of the house without the people feeling brighter. Happiness and good health are co-related, as will be explained. ... Good health can never be maintained by focusing on just the needs of material success and using the body as a projected image with the inner mind in unrest. 


Since science only focuses on the external, observable world, a purely scientific approach which aims at only focusing on improvements in scientific/technological development will never lead to evolution of peace and harmony within the soul or in society. 


Due to neglect of soul needs in the education curriculum, human development has failed to realize feelings of peace and contentment. To be happier or more peaceful, a training in systematic understanding of emotional complexities, needs to be inculcated with the same zeal as mathematical skills are taught. 


 

A focus on integration of soul needs along with material needs while teaching how to make choices in everyday life is essential to create peaceful adults. A training in integrated Emotional and Spiritual development is the only way to permanently increase peace and happiness in the world. 


Though we blame everything else except our thinking patterns for the problems in our life ,  a regular focus on grades/marks/ performance ability, success and money has been the core negative thinking principle which has led to a lop-sided development of humanity wherein inner peace of the mind has been sacrificed for a need to perform due to external pressure.


 This lop-sided development has led to creation of imbalanced individuals who have no training on how to resolve complex emotional issues and resort to violence or addictions to vent out frustrations in an attempt to find inner peace. 



Human happiness cannot be created as a side-effect of success. You cannot get balanced, peaceful and happy adults by pursuing mechanical/academic success as the goal of education. 


Mind patterns are set in childhood and are affected by mass culture which is affected by education, predominantly.  Since, the focus of all education has been on becoming successful at the cost of neglecting training in development of peace and inner happiness, people are driven towards a rat race to earn success. 


Training young minds to think that working mechanically for successful performance is all that is needed to be happy makes them feel comfortable about ignoring complex emotional development , which actually aids human mind towards evolving to be happy and healthy through the obstacles which adult life projects. 



Children driven towards winning above being peaceful, start finding short-cuts to success which are manipulative and corrupt. A pattern of mass thinking has developed such that respect is measured by money.  If you are not aiming at happiness or inner peace, money for success can be earned by being manipulative and corrupt more than by being good and helpful. 


However, happiness and satisfaction come from a job well done whether it is acknowledged as successful conventionally, or not. Winning always is not necessary to be happy. Trial and error are common processes involved in research and inventions. Through the process of overcoming failure, happiness and satisfaction continue to motivate the person towards achieving success with satisfaction. For example, Thomas Edison continued to fail for thirty years before he finally created an electric bulb. Like him, students need to be trained to be motivated from within by a system of education which rewards the process of achieving satisfaction and not just the result. 


A balanced training between inner satisfaction and outcome/ happiness vs. success ensures internal and external satisfaction even if the money earned is less than conventionally well defined. But, a pure focus on results/money/success leads to neglect of effort on feeling satisfaction, peacefulness or freedom from anxiety.


This blog is an excerpt from my book - Spirituality in Education (chapter 1)


Emotional Management From The Spiritual Perspective

 Emotional Management includes Past Life therapy, inner child healing, neuro-linguistic programming, Reiki, Pranik healing, Theta Healing, L...