The soul can review its life plan after death upon going up to the spiritual plane. On reviewing its life choices, it may decide to re-adjust its life plan so that it is better prepared for the same tests of difficulties, the next time it reincarnates. Heaven functions like Earth except that it does not support negative frequencies. However, life goes on there as here; and there are soul classrooms where the soul can learn how to meet its challenges on Earth. Thus, several souls make a choice to quit their bodies and rest for some time, before meeting the next round of challenges on Earth.
(Chapter 18 - REDEFINING HAPPINESS - Overcoming the grief of Death)
The person who dies feels a release and gets a sense of freedom from the physical body at the point of death. However, people who stay back miss their presence as the people who leave may be their support systems on Earth, and they may be loved deeply. Thus, when souls leave their bodies, they feel that they cannot release fully as people behind keep calling them back. That does not help the souls who chose to die attain a release, as the spirits leaving cannot heal completely in heaven if parts of the spirit cannot go. Also, the parts which are held back have negative emotional attachments. They are in grief. Hence, they transfer negativity to the people who call them, as they can only respond in energy.
After the person dies, we need to let go of our attachments which may pull him back. The person can communicate and help us from heaven at an energy level. He can appear in our dreams or give us insights. But, holding on to dead form’s soul energy is unhealthy as the soul of the person cannot get the freedom it desired by leaving Earth if you hold on to its memory intensely. The spirit remains stuck in the halo of negative energy it dies in as it does not move on to a different positive frequency, till it gets released.
A spirit which you keep calling back, may enter you and make you feel negative, since it is an energy which does not have a body.
Usually, spirits are glad to leave if you can convince them you would be fine without them. Even if you cannot be fine without them, convince yourself to raise your emotional strengths and allow them to leave.
As far as possible, whenever a person dies, do a quick spirit release.
• Sit in a semi trance state where your mind is calm.
• Now, visualize the person at the moment of his or her death.
• See a spirit coming out of his body. Let your imagination be free and accept first impressions coming to your mind
• If the spirit is going up, you will see it revolving and becoming light in frequency as it goes up.
• If the spirit looks lost or is moving towards another person, call the dead person by name.
• Keep a glass wall between you and the spirit.
• Imagine golden light coming up on top of the spirit’s head.
• At the same time, show the spirit a halo of light above its head. Ask the spirit to look into the light. As the spirit looks up to the light, it will enter the light.
• If the spirit is restless, he may have concerns which he is unable to let go. Convince the spirit to look up at the light and go.
• However, if you feel that the spirit looks nervous/restless, hear whatever it wants to say. You may use the steps involved in the process given previously of talking silently.
• Feel words coming into your mind as from your own subconscious or from nowhere. Accept the first impressions coming to your mind.
• If you get the feeling that the spirit has any resentment him his dead body and again point to the light.
• If the spirit dies in an accident or suddenly, it may be too shocked and too full of responsibility to leave. However, it cannot fill its responsibilities if its body is gone. So, it has to let go. Convince the spirit to go in the Light once by imagining it is there. Once it goes, it will understand the life plan and why it died. While convincing the soul to go up, you may say that it can heal and come back if it does not like it in that dimension.
• If the spirit is unable to let go and still appears concerned, ask it to visualize that his responsibility is being met by another person on Earth.
• Explain that it has to leave as it will not be able to achieve any purpose by staying on without a body.
• Tell the spirit repeatedly that its body is gone. Say that its purpose of life is over because the body is gone and it cannot achieve its purpose unless it goes to heaven, heals and returns. Ask it to let go of all sadness and look up at the light.
• Once the spirit can visualize the light, ask him to imagine it is in the Light. Then, you will see it flying up to the Light.
• Cut your ENERGY CORD with that person and just see him disappearing into Light and let go.
• As it goes into the light, you may see it passing through an energy shower of light and all black energy falling off it like grey smoke falling off. The spirit may start glowing and appear younger.
• Next, you may see it entering a golden gate and going to heaven.
• The spirit will be cleansed in heaven and informed of its remaining soul plan. You may even see it coming back and entering a baby’s body or a parallel body.
• Before ending the process, do an energy exchange.
• Imagine sending all of the spirit’s energy to him out of your body.
• Then, feel that your energy has come back to you as the spirit goes into light.
• If the spirit says again and again that it cannot see light, ask the spirit to look around and imagine light somewhere above its head. You can also imagine light around its head as if a door towards a dimension of light is opening. You can imagine gates of heaven opening for the spirit. Then, see an angel or a loved one coming to take the spirit into the Light. See the spirit holding his hand and going into the Light.
• If the person cannot enter the light, ask him to stand under an energy shower and release balls of smoke. Imagine negativity falling off him as rocks falling off. See animals or objects or weapons being released and being sucked in a black hole. Now, the spirit will appear freer and brighter.
• Now, feel a golden energy entering him.
• Then, see him going into the light.
• Cut your energy chord, do an energy exchange and see it flying away.