LET LOVE RULE YOUR DECISIONS OVER FEAR

Choices of life are made in fear or love

However, focus on fear multiplies more of the same

It is better to choose to love than choose fear of the worst 
That which you focus on will manifest through energy waves multiplying 

Fear is an illusion created by the dark waves of matter which block creation of the new, 
Sometimes hurting others is necessary for their evolution and taking leaps of faith is needed to learn how to fly upwards on happiness, 

You will be reborn with same problems till you choose to change your circumstances by detachment from fear of hurting others

Several people choose to stay unhappy because of fear of hurting others , or breaking traditions.

You cannot choose to stay unhappy now and expect to be happy in the future as energies multiply by inner focus, irrespective of the work you do outside.  All work requires some sacrifice of pleasure , be it office-work, exercising or cooking; but if long run gain is more, the sacrifice can be ignored and the gain focused upon.

For example, when people stay together because they love each other, there is pleasure and understanding in the relationship which makes gains greater than the sacrifice involved in staying together. However, if people stay together in fear of hurting the other because they once loved each other and cannot break promises now, it is a trap of negative energy cycle and would not allow the souls to float upto being happy ever. Feelings seek to repeat themselves irrespective of whether it is good or bad for the person involved. Sacrifice is involved in any work but if the sacrifice leads to greater pleasure in the future, it helps to increase positive energy in life; however, if the sacrifice is done out of fear and does not lead to increased happiness in the future, it is a trap of a negative energy cycle.

 Similarly, when people sacrifice meditation, love  or self-healing  to work for earning money , at all costs; it is a trap of desperation as the focus remains on feeling tense or deprived in the present. Focus is on loss and manifests more of the same feeling in one form or another. Negative energy creates worries of misfortune and stays alive by increasing expenditures. Where scarcity remains a focus, it keeps manifesting itself in newer forms and the sacrifice done out of fear of not having enough, in effect, never leads to contentment.

Negative energy moves in neurological circuits in the mind which needs to be broken by a  choice to not sacrifice. To be happier in the future, any work needs to be done with a detached or happy attitude or left undone, as inconsequential . 

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