KEEPING KARVACHAUTH IS NO PROOF OF A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE,
Telling lies to the world is self defense but you lie to yourself by escaping in rituals which are unwise,
if your husband wants to die, its his choice and his karmic liability to fulfil
if he has killed other souls, or feels sad about life, ur fasting wont give him back his optimism of life
Tradition requires we stay in marriage or with parents even if we feel negative. However , truthfullness is necessary to be positive. Truth requires confrontation even if it means a break down in relationships. Soul lessons always involve detachments and letting of money, security and a negative optimum balance to find a more positive optimum balance where health and happiness rise to a higher level.
If you are in a bad marriage, you have to release the spouse or you have to release all those people around you because of who there is misunderstanding in the marriage. Truth has to be addressed if you want to be happy. Short cuts do not help in long term happiness. As the consciousness of SHIV represents , Destruction is necessary for improvising creation.
A bad marriage is usually a cause of great distress and blaming God for your distress is unethical . God cannot help you heal your karma unless you make efforts to learn your soul lessons and let go of negative attachments held together more by tradition than true love.
Praying will not help you heal you karma if LETTING GO ? DESTRUCTION OF OLD PATTERNS OF THINKING is required to evolve consciousness.
Holding together a negative , dead marriage may be disastrous when your soul lesson may be to either change yourself or let go /change your spouse.
You have to choose that path which make you feel more truthful as clarity in thinking is necessary for a higher positive soul frequency, health and happiness. The more truthful you are with yourself, the less doubtful, diseased or compromised you will feel.
If your mother fights with your wife, or your wife does not care for your needs; going to a prostitute will not lead to happiness. If your parents don't like your husband , you have to choose between the ideology you agree with more. You cannot expect your spouse to think like your parents, as childhood conditioning is different . If you canignore your parents, it means you agree with the thinking of your husband more but if you agree more with your parents, you have to let go of the husband who disagrees. Do not force change on another man who has a different soul purpose than yourself as that would lead to love dying in the marriage. If sexual interaction is dying, you need to recheck whether the marriage is worth holding onto or you may be better off single than with a negative partner. Responsibilities can be addressed better in a more positive environment than feeling negatively attacked all the time.
Do not expect a priest or a spiritual person to solve your problems without you talking any steps to let go of the negative scenario yourself.
God is there to help you but you cannot keep demanding from God just as you cannot keep demanding from a parent. At some point of evolution, you have to let go of blind faith and take responsibility yourself to learn thinking in alignment with the will of God.
God does not ask you to play in dirt and come home crying. Staying with negative people is like playing in dirty energy. Feeling sad or frustrated is your choice and you can let go of the need to stay with them to be positive as tradition is not more important than truth.
God cannot help a soul basking in negativity as the soul comes on Earth to overcome negative emotions itself by learning soul lessons. You are unable to let go of a negative scenario because you need to play with emotions like an addiction. Negative hormones are relesaed in the bloodstream by staying negative in the same way as during smoking, alcoholism or drug addictions. the body gets used to staying in a negative balance . Letting go always require shaking up a negative balance to attain a new positive balance which is free of addictions to the negative. Positive hormones get released with staying positive which leads to improved health and a relaxed mental state , without needing any medications.
. Responsibility costs money and energy . Learning spirituality also needs money and energy. If you have money to buy gold and clothes, then you also have money to learn spiritualism and release negative soul attachments. If you choose not to learn and pray blindly, God cannot help you beyond a point as helping a devolving , materialistic soul get more gold, sex, cars, houses or toys means helping him fall further into dirt.
To rise up, the soul has to let go of desires which satisfy him temporarily but make him more sad later just as to stay healthy, the child has to clean himself of the need to play with negativity.
To become one with God’s thinking means to evolve upwards constantly. In the process of evolution, we often have to let go of people and things which make us be negative. Spirituality means an upliftment from being materially detached to being spiritually attached to Gd. A spiritual person is one for who Godliness matters above all considerations and who seeks to understand God from the depths, not just follow God blindly.
Godliness means to be positive in thinking. In all obstacles, the person remains positive and does not compromise with less respect. The person who is godlike is able to detach easily and satisfy his or her needs through a connection with pure energy rather than material artifacts representing energy. Saints live in comfort in bare minimum because they do not feel as much pain as a materially attached person does. Pain is a result of thinking negative and when you remain detached, there is no need to feel negative or create negative hormones in the body which release pain. . Compromise means unhappiness.
People who pray a lot, fast, light candles to worship are rarely spiritual or god aligned in thinking. They are materialistic and they want God to satisfy their material demands. They want God to prove to them that they can be irresponsible in thinking and God will meet all their dreams because he loves them as an indulgent parent. They are like small children or young souls. However, as children want to grow up and need to learn lessons to grow mature, souls also need to learn soul lessons.
If you are spiritual and married to a materialistic person but cannot take a decision to divorce, you can start learning spiritual practices like REIKI , or chanting NAM MYOHO RENGE KYON ( 100 times daily ) .. once you allow God to intervene, God will ensure you are free of negativity by causing so much turmoil in your life that you are led to divorce.